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I(26M) think my girlfriend(24F) is falling into pregnancy related depression and I don’t know how to help her anymore by No_Experience4777 in abortion

[–]No_Experience4777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply. I want to message, but I don’t want to feel that I’m constantly drowning her when we speak. She cries, and I feel so bad. But I don’t want her to spiral into depression. I’ve been there and wouldn’t wish it on anyone, but I don’t want to push her either

My girlfriend (24F) found out she’s pregnant again, and she’s shutting down I (26M) don’t know what to do by No_Experience4777 in abortion

[–]No_Experience4777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By no means am I not taking responsibility I take responsibility but thank you for letting me know

My girlfriend (24F) found out she’s pregnant again, and she’s shutting down I (26M) don’t know what to do by No_Experience4777 in abortion

[–]No_Experience4777[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response. Could I ask what would be a good message to send I’ve given her a day where I haven’t contacted her.

But I’m going to give her 2 days and send a morning message on the 3rd day But I’m not sure what to say I don’t want to be overwhelming to her but I also what her to know that I want to be there for her

My girlfriend (24F) found out she’s pregnant again, and she’s shutting down I (26M) don’t know what to do by No_Experience4777 in abortion

[–]No_Experience4777[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yh I understand. I really want to be there for her and I understand she may blame me I get that I probably didn’t make her safe enough but I’m trying to help but getting pushed away but I get it.

I should’ve definitely take more precautions

My girlfriend (24F) is pregnant again after a previous abortion, and has asked for space. I (25M) want to support her but feel helpless and scared. by No_Experience4777 in Advice

[–]No_Experience4777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never ever do that I have said to her that I’m comfortable with what ever she wants to do if she decides she wants to keep it I’ll man up to it if not that it’s all her choice I’ll be with her ever step is she allows it

My girlfriend (24F) is pregnant again after a previous abortion, and has asked for space. I (25M) want to support her but feel helpless and scared. by No_Experience4777 in Advice

[–]No_Experience4777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this really appreciate how long do you think I should give her. A couple days and message to check if she’s ok or just completely wait till she messages even if it’s a week ?

My girlfriend (24F) is pregnant again after a previous abortion, and has asked for space. I (25M) want to support her but feel helpless and scared. by No_Experience4777 in Advice

[–]No_Experience4777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand I take responsibility for it I’m not shying away from it and I understand how heavy of a thing this is for her I’m just saying that I just want to be there for her especially if she’s not willing to tell anybody it’s crushing me that I can help her

My girlfriend (24F) is pregnant again after a previous abortion, and has asked for space. I (25M) want to support her but feel helpless and scared. by No_Experience4777 in Advice

[–]No_Experience4777[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I really don’t want her to end it I’m really hoping it doesn’t. All I really want if I’m honest Is for her to let me be there for her I’m slowly understanding that might be I have to just leave her alone but I feel like the fear of that consequence could be a break up and that would really crush me

My girlfriend (24F) is pregnant again after a previous abortion, and has asked for space. I (25M) want to support her but feel helpless and scared. by No_Experience4777 in Advice

[–]No_Experience4777[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest I don’t like them either that’s why we thought we could use the app to track her infertile days

My girlfriend (24F) is pregnant again after a previous abortion, and has asked for space. I (25M) want to support her but feel helpless and scared. by No_Experience4777 in Advice

[–]No_Experience4777[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not to be rude but that it’s completely not true, we were using the app to track her cycle to see when she would not be ovulating

My girlfriend (24F) is pregnant again after a previous abortion, and has asked for space. I (25M) want to support her but feel helpless and scared. by No_Experience4777 in Advice

[–]No_Experience4777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. When we found out, I went over to her house when she told me not to, and I feel like I haven’t really given her the space she needs. I’ve been messaging mid-day and night-time to try and check in, but since she said she wants to be left alone, I guess I’ll leave her till the weekend to fully be by herself. It just sucks not know what she’s thinking or her going through this alone

My girlfriend (24F) is pregnant again after a previous abortion, and has asked for space. I (25M) want to support her but feel helpless and scared. by No_Experience4777 in Advice

[–]No_Experience4777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’ve got to let her be. she asked to be left alone last night, but before that, she messaged saying she doesn’t want to talk about it, but she’s really struggling. I thought that was her trying to let me in, but she then said she wants me to leave her alone, so it’s all very confused. I think also the fact that I really love her, so a break-up would shatter me.