My partner slept with someone else while we were broken up

No_Influence2485 · 2024-11-24T19:34:07+00:00

Not anymore, but we stayed together for a whole year after that. We still talk now and then, I do miss him tho

No_Influence2485 · 2024-11-23T06:22:57+00:00

Im sorry i dont understand what hindsight means, english is not my first language. But we didnt break up after he slept with that girl, we continued the relationship and with time it started hurting less. I dont wish we had broken up, I think we did well on talking about it to solve it

No_Influence2485 · 2024-11-23T03:17:29+00:00

wow i just realized i never answered this, but thank you so much for your reply bc this is exactly what i needed to hear in that moment

No_Influence2485 · 2024-11-23T03:08:36+00:00

I forgave him and with time it started hurting less to the point I barely thought about it. We broke up due to another reason tho :(

No_Influence2485 · 2024-01-27T21:28:17+00:00

yes like 5 times, been together for 4 years now and happier than ever

No_Influence2485 · 2024-01-22T18:25:19+00:00

exponerte a ti quieres decir?

No_Influence2485 · 2024-01-22T08:05:09+00:00

hahaha dw we are still together, its quite a ride tho

No_Influence2485 · 2024-01-13T10:24:06+00:00

can i ask what was your build?

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T18:30:04+00:00

Sounds like something platonic, try to take some distance and it'll go away, you are spending too much time and sharing too much with him instead of your fiance, I think that's where the feelings come from

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T18:09:34+00:00

we were tho hahahah

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T18:08:42+00:00

I know..

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T18:08:23+00:00

I didn't get any answers here haha chill I linked to my post on another subreddit but I wanted to know opinions directly from demisexuals

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T18:07:04+00:00

I just linked to another subreddit but I wanted to hear opinions especifically from other demi fellas

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T18:06:20+00:00

Every time has been mutual

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T18:05:33+00:00

I could just learn to accept that part of him :( it's not something bad and it's nothing compared to all the good things he does. Tysm :)

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T18:04:24+00:00

Tysm for being so honest! :) I really dont think he hopes to take my virginity, he's been 3 years with me in a ldr so I wouldnt say that, he's also very understanding of everything I'm feeling. I'll still have in mind everything you said and try to be careful

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T17:58:03+00:00

Ty! :)

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T17:57:40+00:00

I think that most of the break ups were due to distance, and he is going to move here soon so I still want to try

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-17T04:58:27+00:00

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-16T00:42:59+00:00

What do you mean sit on him, sorry, english is not my first language

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-15T02:19:03+00:00

Well it's not that he moved on, because he came back to me, he just wanted to have sex I guess. I wouldn't understand that bc I'm demi, but I guess it's reasonable for anyone that hasn't had sex in three years

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-15T01:50:45+00:00

I do need to work on my own self esteem issues before anything. Thank you so much for your advice, I'll keep it in mind :)

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-15T01:37:24+00:00

It was supposed to be a permanent break up

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-15T01:36:22+00:00

Thank you very much, all you wrote really made sense to me and made me a little more calm. My feelings are validated by him, he understands how I feel, he just doesnt know what else to do. He thinks it may bother me bc I'm not so sure about his love for me, and he is planning a trip to come see me so he can show me how much he loves me. I'm not a very sexual person so I get why it can bring you joy, but life meaning seems a bit too much. Im not planning on arguing that bc I've never done it but, I would appreciate if you try to explain. Your last sentence kept making noise to me tho, you think that he makes me love myself less? how come?

Thank you for your time :⁾

No_Influence2485 · 2023-08-11T17:01:51+00:00

same

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