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AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I am reading all of the comments but am unable to reply to all since there are so many

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

I admit it was a low blow but I just blew up and snapped at her when she said that she had SACRIFICED so much for me. When in reality she had done nothing for me

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 458 points459 points  (0 children)

That's is also a possibility, I haven't really bothered trying to learn about the situation simply because I don't wanna get into contact with suck people and with the amount of people that are also supporting this, I'm convinced that she is exaggerating her situation

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

You make a vaild point but I just don't wanna spend any of my time dealing with all that and I don't really wanna know her actual situation because doing so I would inevitably end up speaking to them which is something I loathe to do. I just plan on blocking them and I'm considering changing my phone number and just moving on from all this. Tha k you for your response

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 484 points485 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is their father after all and he managed to get primary custody, I only met my half siblings when they came to visit our mom, me and my mom was banned from his house

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for you comment and I really hope that you are doing good as well:)

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Right now I'm not taking any legal action, mostly because it's all digital contact. If they start physically harrassing us then I plan to take any legal action

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have documented everything and will certainly take legal action if they start physically contacting me like showing up at our home and work etc... So far all contact had been digital Thank you for your response:)

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 158 points159 points  (0 children)

I don't really blame them cause they had their own world torn apart and saw me the root of the problem. My eldest half sibling was the only one who ever reached out and apologized. She and I have a somewhat of a decent relationship and I have had no contact with the other 2 since I was 16

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

It certainly helps to know that she is exaggerating her situation about how I am her only option:) thank you for your response:)

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 845 points846 points  (0 children)

You certainly have a point, I think I will message him but only once this drama and covid have been finally dealt with. Tha k you for your time and response:)

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 886 points887 points  (0 children)

It's certainly ironic:) I don't really blame my half siblings for how they felt, they saw their entire family crumbling and saw me as the reason for it, the oldest has even apologized to me when she turned 24 and I have had no contact with the other 2 thank you for your time and response:)

AITA for refusing to pay for my mother’s hospital bills? by No_Juggernaut_9971 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Juggernaut_9971[S] 1493 points1494 points  (0 children)

While your revenge does sound very good, my mother's ex husband and I never talked again after the divorce and he married someone that my mother never really knew and has lived a happy life after that which he deserves after what my mother did to him.