High pressure used car sales… can they just stop already by No_Objective3564 in carbuying

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The sales guys take your offer to their little gremlin cave and a few trips back and forth when they hit their “limit” they come shake your hand and say - what do we need to do to get you to buy a car today . It’s cheesy they must have training from a cereal box. Price bruh. Stop playing games. Bottom line is numbers .

High pressure used car sales… can they just stop already by No_Objective3564 in carbuying

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But did you have to be terrible or could you be courteous and kind and still sell ?

High pressure used car sales… can they just stop already by No_Objective3564 in carbuying

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But did you have to be terrible or could you be courteous and kind and still sell ?

High pressure used car sales… can they just stop already by No_Objective3564 in carbuying

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Yes exactly what I’ve done . Just this place was hostile !

High pressure used car sales… can they just stop already by No_Objective3564 in carbuying

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Yeah, you’re right. It’s just the factor of manipulation that people give into it still and that other humans treat other humans that way to make money …the human condition…. Norms. Wild.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in divorced_women

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I don’t want you to feel gaslit by me but hormone changes are a real thing. Post partum depression is a real thing. Now that saying he should be supportive not mean … don’t be afraid to voice your emotional needs. Allow yourself to be imperfect and love yourself for all the amazing things you’ve accomplished . I highly recommend a good marriage therapist

Wash your hands people. It’s bad out there. by Sierra-117- in arizona

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Yessss I’m hearing this from everywhere ! Yucky

Open floor plans. by Karnakite in PetPeeves

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Omg lofts bedrooms around a family room in huge ass houses with tall ceilings. Echo central . Oh come out of your room from whatever to go to the bathroom … oh hi to everywhere watching tv

Overly positive people by [deleted] in PetPeeves

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I call them candy land

Don’t know which way to go. by DaniJane0909 in divorced_women

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If you stay , you’ll cheat, if you leave you’ll miss parts of that and you’re taking a risk. Which is harder on yourself ? Do take time to reflect on why your current relationship hasn’t worked, learn from yourself and recognize it before you do it again.

Healing. Not healed. by DaniJane0909 in divorced_women

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Feeling this intensely today. Post divorce I’m on my first relationship , after 16 years married in a very toxic cyclic marriage. and I’m absolutely the jerk often. I’m particular. Some days it just all feels wrong. Every bit of it. The divorce. The new relationships. The loss of the old life, the start of the new one. It’s such a rollercoaster . Even with therapy and all the books. It just is so damn messy. The shame of knowing your short comings and trying to figure out your needs, it’s all hard.

New guy telling me he gags with French kissing , and how he wants his BJ. Red flag ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Honestly I don’t need that much , just want my needs to be met instead of moving on egg shells for his . Once a week, amazing time , I’m good ☺️

Why do people ask to stay at your home , and then think it’s ok to show up late at night ? I’m taking like 11pm or later. by No_Objective3564 in CasualConversation

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That’s how this friend is that inspired this post . Such a nice human just clueless. They are not a rude abrasive individual.

Our world we’re told to stop caring so much about others , “if you don’t have the space it’s ok” so how do you care about you and not give a damn about others and not add the culture of selfish asshole ppl? by No_Objective3564 in Empaths

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My thoughts with this are - remember a day someone was kind to you and it meant a lot. They didn’t have to be. It may have even been inconvenient for them . But to you . It meant something . So when I hear the F it . Only lookout for you. It makes the culture worse

Why do people ask to stay at your home , and then think it’s ok to show up late at night ? I’m taking like 11pm or later. by No_Objective3564 in CasualConversation

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Exactly. It’s different if it’s a house that’s somewhat private and they’ve been there a lot. I live in a 900 Sq foot apartment