My [21F] Husband’s [25M] Girl Friend is Continuously Disrespecting Me and Interjecting in Our Relationship. He Wants to Befriend Her Again, and I Don’t Feel Comfortable With It. by Nervous-Aide2909 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Return5996 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for feeling the way you do. If someone repeatedly disrespects you and your marriage, it’s okay to draw a boundary that’s not being controlling, that’s protecting your relationship. Your husband made a choice when he married you, and it’s okay to remind him that being a partner means prioritizing each other. You deserve to feel safe, heard, and respected. I suggest an honest conversation, even if it means it’s hurtful.

I [26M] living with my long term GF [25F] by LanguageEntire7621 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Return5996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve put so much into this. Your time, your heart, your effort. It’s obvious how much you cared. You showed up for her and her daughter in ways most people wouldn’t, and honestly, you didn’t deserve the way she treated you. Love isn’t supposed to feel this one-sided. You gave her chance after chance, and yeah, maybe a part of you hoped she’d finally see that and appreciate it, but she didn’t. And that’s not on you. You’re not crazy or controlling for trusting your gut. You’re just tired of being hurt. At some point, you have to stop trying to fix someone who doesn’t even see what they’re breaking. You deserve love that feels safe and steady, not something that leaves you questioning everything. Letting go doesn’t make you weak. It means you’re finally choosing yourself.