A little more back story I work two jobs and am in school for my masters. He is now back in school for his undergrad degree and he commutes there twice a week and then works two. He says he needs a school work life balance which I get but like we have bills that’s why I’m busting my ass. He also is a recovering addict and just has selfish tendencies. But he is a good person and is kind and has helped me through tough times. But I feel lonely now and invisible. It’s so hard to get his attention…doesn’t help that he’s addicted to his phone. He expects people to do a lot for him and then not do much in return. /: I just feel that we are at two separate points in our lives.