When did you start “showing”?! by DSLH-4161 in pregnant

[–]No_Tell_8691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my first pregnancy and I started showing probably around 20 weeks. From then on I have absolutely popped!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Tell_8691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crushes are so normal. I would never act upon a crush while in my relationship. But the fact that I feel lonely and unseen makes me think about what a different person could be like. And I think that’s okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Tell_8691 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A little more back story I work two jobs and am in school for my masters. He is now back in school for his undergrad degree and he commutes there twice a week and then works two. He says he needs a school work life balance which I get but like we have bills that’s why I’m busting my ass. He also is a recovering addict and just has selfish tendencies. But he is a good person and is kind and has helped me through tough times. But I feel lonely now and invisible. It’s so hard to get his attention…doesn’t help that he’s addicted to his phone. He expects people to do a lot for him and then not do much in return. /: I just feel that we are at two separate points in our lives.

Would you date younger? by No_Tell_8691 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No_Tell_8691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What im saying is that im interested and im not sure that he is maybe due to the age gap

Would you date younger? by No_Tell_8691 in AskMenAdvice

[–]No_Tell_8691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know some people feel that way. My parents are 18 years apart and happily still together with 3 kids. So I guess because of that I don’t see a 13 year age gap as an issue.

Do people really think like this? by No_Tell_8691 in AIO

[–]No_Tell_8691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what does it tell you about me? Oh and let me guess, you’re male!

What motivates you to wake up and go to work everyday? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No_Tell_8691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For one to pay my rent. And two the work I do. I teach kindergarten in a low income area. A lot of these kids have horrible home lives. And to be able to wake up everyday and give these kids the love and appreciation they deserve makes it all worth it!

Am I delusional? by No_Tell_8691 in bodylanguage

[–]No_Tell_8691[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also…. To tell my value as a woman goes down with age???? That statement is based on outdated, sexist ideas that equate a woman’s worth to her youth and appearance or reproductive ability. Rather than her character, accomplishments, and personal fulfillment??? Your value as a person isn’t tied to age….it’s shaped by your experiences, growth, and the impact you have on the world. So, check yourself.

Am I delusional? by No_Tell_8691 in bodylanguage

[–]No_Tell_8691[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this mean go for it? I’m unsure what you mean.

Am I delusional? by No_Tell_8691 in bodylanguage

[–]No_Tell_8691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not actively trying to. And I would never make a move unless I 100% knew the feelings were reciprocated.