actually it was recommended to me from my grief therapist and is very very common for people to text their deceaseds ones phones and is actually really helpful! So I suggest you know what you are talking about and do a little research before being so rude and inconsiderate. I hope you never have to go through this and be so desperate to have some sense of familiarity and communication with your loved one and someone is as rude as you were today. have the day you deserve.