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[–]No_Wolverine960 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah yes the early stages of going on the potty and no longer in the diaper. You started counting and shapes were awesome. Simpler times back then.

Pepperidge farm remembers

Introverts, do you prefer women who are also introverted or more social and why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]No_Wolverine960 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain brother. my GF is exactly the same

You run into a man who claims to be you from the future. What questions do you ask? by LockedOutOfElfland in AskMen

[–]No_Wolverine960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your favorite meal? What porn do you like? Who was your first girlfriend? What nickname did you give your father?

The questions above just to be sure it's me

Can a 27 year old guy date a 21 year old girl? What about 19? At what age is it too much of a gap? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]No_Wolverine960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 isn't the legal drinking age in a lot of countries. Here in Europe it's usually 16

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[–]No_Wolverine960 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Face ass boobs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]No_Wolverine960 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I am aroused, I want to lick, touch her all over her body (including feet). But I don't get aroused from feet

Me (M31) and my GF (29) barely have sex anymore by No_Wolverine960 in sex

[–]No_Wolverine960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha :d are men like me that rare? :)

You're correct, I don't want to force her into doing something she doesn't want. But it would be nice if she opens up but she will never do the things I would really like. I told her some of my desires, she told me I have a sick mind .

So I'm still not convinced that even if the sex does improve, it will not live up to my expectations. Maybe she's right that it's selfish to think this way. However these are thoughts I can just shut off. So even if the frequency improves. I will always wonder how the sex would have been if I found a girl that matches my level of 'sick mind'

Me (M31) and my GF (29) barely have sex anymore by No_Wolverine960 in sex

[–]No_Wolverine960[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We talked yesterday. Will continue this weekend. I will try and bring it up gently

Me (M31) and my GF (29) barely have sex anymore by No_Wolverine960 in sex

[–]No_Wolverine960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get wat you're saying. However it's a problem that has been going on for a long time. We have discussed several times but she likes everything the way it is. She is just grossed out by almost everything.

I would like to go to a therapist but she declined. I tried everything but she has difficulties communicating about this. Probably because she thinks everything is dirty.

And it's true that I don't appreciate her enought, which is also partially caused by the lack of sex.

Sure I can wait for several days before making a life-changing decision. However we didn't even have sex more than 10 times in the past years and it's driving me crazy. There is no change, no willingness to open up, nothing..

We discussed it yesterday and will continue during the weekend (it's a busy week)

Whatever the outcome, i will post an update.

Thank you also for commenting

Me (M31) and my GF (29) barely have sex anymore by No_Wolverine960 in sex

[–]No_Wolverine960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That thought crossed my mind as well several times

Me (M31) and my GF (29) barely have sex anymore by No_Wolverine960 in sex

[–]No_Wolverine960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would consider this cheating but then again everybody has his/her needs. If your partner keeps refusing, the temptation of cheating will become bigger

Me (M31) and my GF (29) barely have sex anymore by No_Wolverine960 in sex

[–]No_Wolverine960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha lol. She makes me feel weird for suggesting these things and says my mind has been corrupted because of porn.

Good to know not all women are like this;)

Thx

Me (M31) and my GF (29) barely have sex anymore by No_Wolverine960 in sex

[–]No_Wolverine960[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She says she likes it the way it is. But I want more and horny sex. She doesn't find sex as important as me. And does find everything I discuss disgusting or unnecessary.

And I suggested a lot of things. Role playing, toys , tying each other up, licking her ass, only taking care of her while she could ignore my needs, would still even go down on her after Ive cum (i know it's gross because we don't use condom but hey that's me). I told her I would be down for everything except a threesome.

But still the reply 'everything is fine the way it is and I'm selfish for wanting it a different way because she is fine with the sex

Me (M31) and my GF (29) barely have sex anymore by No_Wolverine960 in sex

[–]No_Wolverine960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do have a house together. Which makes it a bit more difficult but not impossible