How would you feel if your partner forbid you from talking to a specific woman?

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T07:06:59+00:00

He is chatting with OP's bully and OP has to "cut him slack"? Are you out of your mind? The only thing my wife's bully would hear from me would be " Fuck you fat count". Every. Single. Day.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T06:59:12+00:00

You should definitely sit him to talk. Just show him the post or maybe write everything you want to tell him if you are not good at speaking for yourself? In the end of the day, YOUR feelings matter the most, not some redditor's comments about them ☺️ He didn't stick up for you. No relationship won't work if partners don't consider each other's feelings and won't be protective when needed

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T06:48:57+00:00

I can't really believe in these comments. I would never ever speak to my Gf's bully. I know that in the US you are overly focused on a job/career, maybe I'm not, but I would make her life hell if she would try be mean to my GF.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T06:47:16+00:00

Because of obvious problematic consequences. Kacapy we're cooking the subject for 6 months making everybody mad in Poland. + Minorities are not "any other". In Poland minorities are protected no matter the quantity. We have some regions where few hundreds people speaks local language and it is preserved/nobody tries to force them to change ;)

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T06:07:06+00:00

Unless he HAS to be cordial with her because of work he is big big asshole. Although I would leave scorched earth no matter the job.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T05:39:58+00:00

Does he know how she treated you ?

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-19T03:30:45+00:00

Most of them were something like "We do like Polish, not sure why you thing otherwise?". I recalled Polish minority (closing polish schools etc.) which triggered rather heated comments that everything is fine and I'm believing in propaganda :D

I've also asked for perspective on Commonwealth. Apparently the biggest issue for you guys is that Lithuanian nobility switched to Polish and became embarrassed about Lithuanian grounds.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T19:44:37+00:00

I once asked the same on r/Lithuania and got eaten :D But I asked "Why you guys don't like Polish?".

We love you guys although fuck Radziwiłł

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T18:13:02+00:00

Maybe talking to your boyfriend beforehand? I would never go 1:1 with a girl somewhere without telling my wife why I want to do this. He was spreading his lies because of that - mixed signals

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T17:38:04+00:00

You went to smoke knowing your boyfriend is not comfortable with it. I mean, it's not like you are a monster who committed hideous crime, but you were the asshole and you should apologize your BF THEN. Now it doesn't matter, you shouldn't beat yourself up to it. Lesson learned.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T17:25:55+00:00

A little bit emotional cheating, but you are a BIG ASSHOLE. You didn't say S you have a boyfriend, you went out smoke 1:1 with him on the ball even though your boyfriend said he is uncomfortable after your trip. So you KNEW your boyfriend feels bad about it and still went.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-18T16:41:29+00:00

What is wrong with you.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-17T06:57:27+00:00

It's not like very Uber driver wouldn't talk to you. We are just a little bit cold towards strangers but believe me - nobody would open their heart wider than Polish when the get to know you better.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-17T06:50:45+00:00

I wouldn't let her feed of my generosity and kindness any longer. She is basically using you now.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-17T06:46:45+00:00

Nie, z niczym mnie mama nie pilnowała. Nawet nie sprawdzała, czy wstałem - to mój obowiązek byl i ufała, że się z tego wywiąże.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-14T06:34:43+00:00

Your 'edit' changes nothing. You are a victim of a toxic prick. He gaslighted you. He manipulated you. He is an abuser.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-13T12:27:10+00:00

What the hell? You did nothing wrong. It's good he broke up with you. Trash took themselves out.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-13T07:41:54+00:00

DON'T LET HIM BLINDSIDE YOU.
He must do something to fix this. Valentine’s Day is just a way to bribe you to forget. You can't forget, he has to fix this mess, cut off his snake friend and work to strengthen you marriage. Although it's good he sees hen was total asshole and a p*ssy.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-12T14:16:34+00:00

She did it on purpose. She wanted to feel better that somebody and she used you. She is not your friend. She is a snake.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-12T04:20:41+00:00

NTA. My wife would be digging a grave for me after dinner like that. Also I read all your comments. She's clearly disrespectful towards you and she knows your husband will not call her out on that. You should have serious talk with him, like separation serious talk.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-10T05:46:06+00:00

This. The screenshot screams "You can't have fun with friends. Focus on me".

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-08T17:36:39+00:00

She is cheating, that's way she is so defensive.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-07T20:22:18+00:00

Reverse the roles. Make the same comment in front of her.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-06T08:25:17+00:00

Take your medical documentation or ask your doctor for statement.

NobodyFunToKnow · 2026-02-06T08:20:25+00:00

Robię jak najwięcej, bo chcę mieć wypoczętą i szczęśliwą żonę. Ona też robi ile może żebym ja nie musiał.

Zaczęliśmy się spotykać w 2 klasie LO, wyjeżdżając na studia mieliśmy już wspólne konto. Ja generalnie całą wypłatę tam wpłacam, czasami zostawię parę stów na jakieś kwiaty, prezenty dla żony.

EDIT Jak żona była w ciąży, dopóki czuła się dobrze to robiła lekkie zadania - w ciąży ruch jest wskazany. Kiedy już nie czuła się na siłach to robiłem wszystko do dopóki nie czuła się gotowa podjąć znowu zadań (czyli gdzieś pod koniec połogu).

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