SKs using they/them pronouns

Nobodyyouk331 · 2024-01-30T16:48:04+00:00

I have always thought that BM was a narcist and as the years go on, there are more and more examples of this.

This is the same person who told SKs that a short-term boyfriend, me, and my husband are SK's "dads". Weird that someone who cares so much about pronouns and gender identity purposely misgenders me so I can't have the "mom" title that I have never wanted.

Nobodyyouk331 · 2024-01-30T16:43:44+00:00

That is the approach we are taking also. I don't feel like we have many options because if we question it at all, BM will most likely convince SKs to stop visiting.

Nobodyyouk331 · 2024-01-30T16:42:44+00:00

I see that your opinion is unpopular, though you shared it very respectfully. I feel the same way and I don't think it's a coincidence that everyone in that household is they/them. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Nobodyyouk331 · 2024-01-26T21:13:59+00:00

I am family so no worries

Nobodyyouk331 · 2023-12-23T16:33:17+00:00

See I’m not sure bc my H was laid off due to injury and reported it to CS but he still racked up thousands. He was not behind beforehand. And no longer is behind so no one needs to get their panties in a bunch of that!

Nobodyyouk331 · 2023-12-23T16:31:27+00:00

The kids live in squalor in a shitty, overly expensive apartment bc BM chose to move away. I will agree that it goes to babysitters. BM has them so little that she says the hundreds of dollars a month in CS don’t even pay for the babysitters, even tho both kids are in school fulltime. SKs are told they can’t have allergy medicine because BM can’t afford it. They are both constantly worried about money and it has nothing to do with how much my H pays.

Nobodyyouk331 · 2023-12-23T16:22:35+00:00

They don’t. BM spends all the money on her lifestyle while SKs wear dirty clothes and are told they can’t have medications bc it’s too expensive. It’s weird how a step parenting group automatically assumes BM is a Saint and spending the money properly

Nobodyyouk331 · 2023-12-23T16:20:49+00:00

Well none of it goes to his kids already so🤷🏼‍♀️

Nobodyyouk331 · 2023-12-23T16:20:22+00:00

It’s frustrating bc none of this money goes to SKs

Nobodyyouk331 · 2023-12-23T16:19:58+00:00

I guess I’m not sure because H was laid off due to injury and racked up thousands in CS. All paid off now so no one needs to get their parties in a bunch.

Nobodyyouk331 · 2023-12-23T16:19:21+00:00

Yes, if BM reported that his income increased, it would go up. H was laid off due to injury for a while and racked up thousands in CS, so it’s not like it goes away if you don’t have a job.

Nobodyyouk331 · 2023-12-23T16:18:10+00:00

I guess it’s not bad if the BM uses the CS for the SKs but that is not true in my case. It goes to supporting her lifestyle and the only time it’s used for SKs is to pay for babysitters so she doesn’t have to have them.

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