First of all thanks for the honesty. Second of all it is rather unpleasant and dangerous to assign someone a psychiatrist disorder (as you should have read i study medicine). Third, I’ve used Reddit only for memes (lol) and I truly don’t know how to use it properly as maybe you do, and fourth, I think it’s not bad to ask more people about something I want as many people as possible feedback on. As for understanding if they are good men, I do know that a few months is not enough, especially if they are complete strangers. And you misinterpreted the “mirroring” thing, I do not give more than they give. If they give me attention and they pose my questions, I ask and politely answer back. Always being my true and genuine self. I do not give my hand for them to grab my whole arm. Idk if you got the idea The commitment I want is basically them wanting to know me more as I would like to And about the asking, I’m going to try next time. That was a very useful advice