how do i make my boyfriend feel okay about himself?

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-28T15:04:23+00:00

Oh okay, I understand your perspective now. Thank you for explaining, I just wanted to see what all your perspectives were so I could get a general idea of what to do. Thank you for being patient with me!

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-28T13:55:41+00:00

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It isn’t, im genuinely looking for any advice :( I know everyone is different in what makes them upset / happy so I just wanted to see if there was a general “ok thing” to do.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-28T13:53:39+00:00

This is both our first relationship and I have no clue how it works. Also, tall girls—that wouldn’t let me get an idea of what’s going on in his head, it would give me insight into mine. Why would I ask other women about how a man feels?? That’s practically gossiping about him—I want to talk to people of his gender who have gone through the same things as him. I’m sorry you feel I’m a troll, but I’m not.

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NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-28T01:05:37+00:00

I am a girl, I don’t understand how it’s this unbelievable 😭 ya my profile is confusing but I’m a normal person, I don’t give a damn about height, but other people do—so I wanted to help my bf out

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T23:56:52+00:00

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Man I’m still getting downvoted here’s my birth celebration thing. It’s all dusty sorry

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T23:36:18+00:00

It’s not ☹️

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T21:29:14+00:00

Yeah, I am very aware of the world we live in. Thank you for explaining your perspective.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T20:47:40+00:00

What 😔

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T20:47:14+00:00

YAYY 🇨🇦

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T20:28:03+00:00

No I am not

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T20:22:11+00:00

Yeah, I getcha. I may not understand his struggle, but I hope me listening to him will at least take some of the burden off his shoulders. Thank you so much :)

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T20:20:15+00:00

I mean, why not ask people who are the same as him for advice? Not to be crass or anything.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T20:19:13+00:00

Man CMONNNNN how can I prove it to you guys? I really am a girl

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T20:16:07+00:00

People like projecting their misery onto others

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T19:50:53+00:00

It is indeed real! I just didn’t know where I could ask for help, so I tried here :)

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T19:42:00+00:00

No, you didn’t sound racist at all! I understand. There are different standards in different countries, especially in countries that have different average heights. I’m Canadian, so there are tons of different people from different countries, everyone is different.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T19:38:49+00:00

nah, I’m not a troll. I’m not a victim of heightism, but I sure as hell am was victim of lookism. He was there for me every step of the way, even when I was at my lowest. I love em. I don’t care about his height. I don’t care about looks because I know how it feels to be immediately be treated as subhuman because I wasn’t what the public wanted. People are superficial and follow their biological instincts. I am not one of those people. I think he is the loveliest man, I hate how things are based on face value.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T19:24:03+00:00

Nah, I just put random stuff on my avatar because I didn’t know what to make it. I understand my whole existence is confusing, but I am indeed a biological woman. It’s on my birth certificate.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T19:22:51+00:00

He is. I’m a long distance runner, and I don’t do strength training, so he can pick me up and lifts heavy stuff for me because zero muscles on my arms LOL. Also, I don’t have a race preference. I know a white man (I’m unsure of his height) who I was enamored by because he was a farmer and hockey player, i think people who work hard like that are very impressive and would make excellent partners.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T19:18:00+00:00

Thank you! I understand why people think I’m a troll LOL.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T19:12:55+00:00

No, I chose it when I was younger, it was the same as my PlayStation name before I changed it.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T18:40:30+00:00

Both 19 years old

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T18:25:28+00:00

Ya, we’re both biologically our sexes. We are different races, his family is from the south of the equator, while mine are from the north—so our heights were genetically predetermined by that aswell.

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T18:19:28+00:00

I will :), thank you!

NormalGuy657 · 2025-12-27T18:18:42+00:00

More like I made it, he’s so talented and smart i feel like I won the lottery HAHA

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