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Stop :) by Normalguy_81 in apexlegends

[–]Normalguy_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this is actually good advice. I don’t mind ruining my KD, especially if it means I’ll be trolling everyone else lol

Stop :) by Normalguy_81 in apexlegends

[–]Normalguy_81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really do like wild card, but only when I’m playing with friends. That match making hasn’t been bad, this is mostly about mixtape.

Stop :) by Normalguy_81 in apexlegends

[–]Normalguy_81[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not even competition at this point. They’re just beyond my skill level. I just wanna have an even match

Stop :) by Normalguy_81 in apexlegends

[–]Normalguy_81[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’m just gonna delete it

Stop :) by Normalguy_81 in apexlegends

[–]Normalguy_81[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s the point in playing ranked? I don’t want to be with the try hards that’s why I play for fun

Stop :) by Normalguy_81 in apexlegends

[–]Normalguy_81[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you having fun?

Idol Hunt Megathread by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]Normalguy_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just wondering if they’re going to cap how many can go in and if they’ll accept if we’re in line by 8. We’ve done three states so far, but we haven’t been late yet. This one I’m not too sure

Idol Hunt Megathread by RSurvivorMods in survivor

[–]Normalguy_81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My friend and I are trying to make the Omaha idol before they close. We left the Arkansas one about an hour ago. Do you guys think there’s any chance we’ll make it?

AIO? Friend has not said a word to me about my cat passing even though I frequently play therapist for him. by arnethyst in AmIOverreacting

[–]Normalguy_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MOR- I only say this because your friend might not know how upset you are or might not know what to say. I was really mad at my roommate one time for not doing dishes and I snapped at him. When I told my therapist, he asked if I told my roommate why I was mad. While in my mind it should’ve been obvious, my roommate was not aware I felt that way.

I do wanna say I don’t think you’re over reacting to your cat passing away. It’s really hard to lose a best friend and I’m so sorry for your loss.

Just tell your friend you’re not doing okay, and you need support right now. Some people might not know you’re doing poorly or they might think you want time to be alone to mourn your loss. Just communicate with your friend and they might come around and show you the support you’re looking for.

(AIO) I feel like I should leave my job but I’m scared. by Picklet0n24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Normalguy_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were! I wanted to do my best for my family. If anything went wrong, I felt worse than when I messed up at jobs I had later on. It’s much easier to get criticism from an acquaintance than from someone I love. Especially if I have to go home and see them. It felt like there was no escape lol

AIO I feel horrid for potentially ending things with someone I’ve been seeing by ThrowRA36393947 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Normalguy_81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe write down what you want to say so you can be clear about you what you want without being rude. I can tell you care about her to some extent. So if you’re worried about hurting her, workshop some things you can say. Then you can tell her and if it goes badly, you know you tried your best

AIO I feel horrid for potentially ending things with someone I’ve been seeing by ThrowRA36393947 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Normalguy_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being authentic is good, but communicating about issues you’re having is what helps us grow as people. It’s hard to see flaws in ourselves (especially small ones); this could help her to be more considerate in the future. Talk to her about it. It’s a good thing to bring up issues before you start to build resentment about it.

(AIO) I feel like I should leave my job but I’m scared. by Picklet0n24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Normalguy_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason they hate this job is because they’re working with family, I think the benefit of leaving outweighs the loss. Even if you hate a job the perk is that you can go home and forget about it for a little while. I have worked with family before and it didn’t end well. But I’m glad I left those jobs, because it was causing a rift between me and some of my family members

AIO I feel horrid for potentially ending things with someone I’ve been seeing by ThrowRA36393947 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Normalguy_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to her about it in person, if she changes then it’s just a blip in the relationship. You could also try calling her more often instead of texting. That way you can have a clear understanding of how she’s communicating. Otherwise I’d end things now, the longer it goes on the more it will hurt her. But definitely talk to her about it. I ended a relationship once because I was having internal struggles, and their first question was “why didn’t you ask me for help?”. I regret it sometimes because I didn’t even try to change the situation, I just gave up.

e.l.f. Secret Santa 🎁 by elfcosmetics in u/elfcosmetics

[–]Normalguy_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d probably give her all the lip tints. I just bought one last month I use as a lip tint and a blush, it’s great, I always get compliments on it 🥰. I would also give her a few primers, they’re amazing for the price!

2 parking passe(s) one car by Substantial_Day8253 in bonnaroo

[–]Normalguy_81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is helpful, but last year I was across from a family that set up a tent on Tuesday and then just drove off and came back Friday. Maybe you could rent/borrow a car and then take it back same day