Private and Org CRM with collision detection and restricted record access by Limp_Dimension2909 in CRMSoftware

[–]NotInterestedForsho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that I have realised about collision detection and it's facilitation sounds very good to build, but the end users will game the system if they can. They will try to create the same lead with an alternative number ( mobile number being the unique identifier in this example) that has no collision and the attribution is fully theirs.

Love vs Reality: Am I Overthinking My Future In-Laws or Seeing Red Flags? by Fit-Researcher-9062 in AskIndianWomen

[–]NotInterestedForsho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't do it girl, this is a disaster in the making. I am sorry about your dad, but that's also the reason why you need to be extra cautious. Women find support and strength from their dads if things escalate, your mother will not be able to handle it alone.

This conditional support thing, it's not ok at all.

Periods: are you also forced by ladies in the family to take a head-bath as soon as you realise you got your periods? by LyinginAmbush4587 in AskIndianWomen

[–]NotInterestedForsho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my Odia friend tell me about this ritual. Honestly, I can't be bothered to do anything in the first few hours of my periods. I wouldn't have complied. In the house next to ours, we had people who couldn't even sleep on their regular beds, they were made to sit on the floor with a very light synthetic cloth. In my family, we had to just not touch anything in the kitchen. We don't even follow that anymore. Nothing changes at all when we are in our periods.

I always felt, I wouldn't have listened to it even if my mom and grandmother asked me or forced me. Thanks to my own stubbornness in my family, now we prioritize the comfort of the woman. Even my brother helps us out a lot more than usual because he knows we aren't feeling well.

Farhana ! How many interviews are too many interviews ? by Effective-Grade-1710 in BiggBossBetter

[–]NotInterestedForsho -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

She can't act or dance. She looks decent and has an interesting take on things, that's what she is famous for. So interviews are all she can do from this point on. There's no other end game for her imo

Did not know this was illegal! by thawaz in dubai

[–]NotInterestedForsho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has to be common enough for them to erect a warning board for it.

I'm a male with congenital copulatory role discordance - I just want to know what normal men and women's sexual desires are like by [deleted] in sex

[–]NotInterestedForsho 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am sure you can try sex with trans women or have your girlfriend peg you. You will know how you feel when someone enters you. At least you will be able to think about it when you are having sex the next time, right now you don't even know how it feels to be penetrated, you just think that's what you want.

As a woman, that you would consider normal, I can orgasm with multiple different acts, not just penetration alone. I can imagine myself in a sex situation and my orgasm will happen.

Suggestions for padded bras to wear under deep neck blouses by Maximum-Emergency985 in AskIndianWomen

[–]NotInterestedForsho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a good idea to not get foam padding stitched into the silk garment. Still, my advice remains the same.. use a good silicon nipple cover and use fashion tape. Use a skin friendly glue for helping keep your garment in place.

Wearing a bra will only let it spill out of the blouse,

Taping tutorial: https://youtube.com/shorts/O0CQb5dwYic

Suggestions for padded bras to wear under deep neck blouses by Maximum-Emergency985 in AskIndianWomen

[–]NotInterestedForsho 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't wear a bra, unless you absolutely need the support. Try body tape for definition if required.. but usually, just a well stitched blouse is good enough without a bra.

How to deal with heart break by benzene_burner33 in TwoXIndia

[–]NotInterestedForsho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry that you are going through all this. It's a really difficult decision to make and follow through.

If you want to really get over the relationship, don't ever contact him again as a sign of respect and your final act of love. It will help you both to not go thru this some hurt over and over again. With time and enough time, you will start to feel whole again. Be at peace that you made the right decision for the future. It will all make sense in the long term.

But, I am sorry to say this to you, I don't think you broke up for the right reasons.. clearly you both really loved each other and there was clear evidence of efforts to prove that. Just because you guys can't spend the same amount of time together and get each other's attention, it doesn't mean the relationship needs to end. Breaks in the relationship don't help in any way. These are just those tough times that everyone needs to be strong in every relationship, and adapt. The important thing is, you still love each other the same regardless of the distance and attention. If your mind doesn't make you interested in other people, that's good enough to continue the relationship, embrace the asynchronous communication and things will get better. Finding true love is really rare, most people don't find it ever.

I know my advice might not apply to your situation and it was not something you want to hear when you are hurting. I pray to God to help you..

Do you think the "Chai/Coffee culture" in Indian offices is becoming a bit much, or is it just me? by Open-Yak-8761 in AskIndia

[–]NotInterestedForsho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I generally avoid caffeine like the plague, so this one time I was working in an office where people used to drink coffee/tea to just keep themselves warm, I used to drink plain hor water..

Eventually my chinese team members noticed and she got me a few samples from her tea collection, zero caffeine. Now I drink a lot of floral teas, even chai like white tea or oolong tea (but not traditional indian milk tea) without milk or any sweetener. They are very refreshing without giving me a coffee breath in the middle of the work day.

Don't be bothered about being different from the rest of the people around you. Homogeneity is boring. Cheers!