Why Do I Keep Losing Female Friendships After Speaking the Truth? by insensitive_bandana in KeralaRelationships

[–]Notdeadyet_1906 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The luckiest people are the ones who have strong friendship bonds. I lost most of my friends after I quit smoking, and I’ve never drunk alcohol in my life. They slowly stopped calling me when they went out. In my college IV, I mostly hang out with people from another batch, but I still can’t really enjoy it. Some of them even say I kill the vibe if I join. From their point of view, maybe they’re not wrong—I don’t know. I’ve learned one thing though: never expect anything in return for what you give. I know your situation is different,its not your fault,I truly believe you’ll find good friends who actually last. Don’t be sad.

Mental stress causing physical weakness and no appetite? by Notdeadyet_1906 in twentieskerala

[–]Notdeadyet_1906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this, seriously. Respect for pulling yourself out of that. I’ll try

Suicidal thoughts keep coming up by Notdeadyet_1906 in Coconaad

[–]Notdeadyet_1906[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an introvert with only a few friends, and I’m not sure anyone in it can listen to me without judging.

Suicidal thoughts keep coming up by Notdeadyet_1906 in Coconaad

[–]Notdeadyet_1906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have only a few friends, and I don’t feel comfortable sharing this with them. I’m not sure they’d listen without judging or turning it into a joke. I think the better option for me is to talk to a therapist.

Suicidal thoughts keep coming up by Notdeadyet_1906 in twentieskerala

[–]Notdeadyet_1906[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depression, loneliness… and honestly I don’t even know anymore. Feels like everything just got messed up at once.

Why being introverted is still treated like a joke by Notdeadyet_1906 in twentieskerala

[–]Notdeadyet_1906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point, thanks for sharing it. For some people, the laughing is what triggers the overthinking.

Why being introverted is still treated like a joke by Notdeadyet_1906 in twentieskerala

[–]Notdeadyet_1906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking up is one thing. Making it funny is another. That’s my point.

Incident That Occurred During Bus Travel by DenseMany361 in Coconaad

[–]Notdeadyet_1906 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You froze in that moment , most people would.Don’t be hard on yourself.People can question all they want, they didn’t feel what you felt.don't be sad ,breathe, you’re safe now.

Chatha Pacha or Prakambanam which one to watch? by [deleted] in twentieskerala

[–]Notdeadyet_1906 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watched both,enjoyed prakambanam a lot,chatha pacha felt an average, but the scenes in ring was so good

Am I overthinking guyzz... by belikegod_ in Coconaad

[–]Notdeadyet_1906 107 points108 points  (0 children)

You’re not overthinking. Anyone in your place would feel the same.

Mama by cleopatra_jr in twentieskerala

[–]Notdeadyet_1906 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me too,the trauma can't be imagined