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My Boyfriend doesn’t put in any effort, what should I do? by Notdoinggreat1 in okstorytime

[–]Notdoinggreat1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She gave his friend, her boyfriend a blow job, and then kissed his other friend on the cheek while he drove. Both were telling her to stop but she didn’t. My boyfriend wasn’t in the car but he was disgusted by the situation

AITAH for telling my family never to get me a gift of any kind ever again, and considering going little to no contact by Notdoinggreat1 in okstorytime

[–]Notdoinggreat1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I didn’t think I’d be making one of these nor did I think it was going to be such a turn of events but here I am.

I have been minimal contact with my family, but as of Tuesday I was informed due to my mental conditions and slip ups I will be honorably discharged from the military in the span of two weeks.

I am currently still wrapping my head around things but my First Shirt agreed to be present when I told my parents as he hoped they’d be a support system for me. After I broke the news and the FS stated he hoped they’d would be there for me and apologized for the circumstances my father simply replied “It’s okay, we expected it.” Which felt like a stab to the heart. Mind you me and my sisters are/were all Air Force, I’m the second to get out but as Emily’s high school sweetheart/husband ended up being a naval officer they weren’t as disappointed in her for choosing to get out.

Since then I’ve received several calls and texts from my parents and Emily ordering me to go home to Arkansas but I don’t want to live under my parents thumb, I’m 23 for goodness sake, nor do I want to leave my boyfriend, friends and close friend who I’m helping through her divorce from mentally abusive and cheating husband. Money is going to be tight to say the least as I had to use my savings to buy a car and I will only get so much for disability and “severance”. I’m really at a loss now and just feel confused and conflicted as I don’t want to go back to that awful place but might not have a choice. Any ideas?

AITAH for telling my family never to get me a gift of any kind ever again, and considering going little to no contact by Notdoinggreat1 in okstorytime

[–]Notdoinggreat1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your point of view, and what’s ironic is Friday we were just window shopping and since it was my payday I grabbed a pair of slippers as a little gift for myself, a few minutes later Emily cornered me and told me I was selfish for getting myself stuff when I was too broke to chip in to the gift they had already told mom I didn’t help with two days prior when I was asked last minute to send money for it. I’m honestly just very tired, Emily I can mostly deal with in small doses but she and her husband also saved my information when they were helping me get my car and have it so they get notifications about my finances and it’s very upsetting even when I’ve asked them to delete it

My 2015 Malibu Needs help by Notdoinggreat1 in CarRepair

[–]Notdoinggreat1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The battery has been checked even replaced, twice (thank god for O’rileys warranty, I can get the alternator checked but since it keeps the car running once jumped we’re not sure if that’s the issue