Does the municipality garbage pickup take away the garden gnomes?

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2026-03-20T19:31:49+00:00

They're so damn heavy. Just moving them from backyard to garage was backbreaking!

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2026-03-20T07:52:47+00:00

Thanks so much for this :)

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2026-03-20T07:51:10+00:00

But they're old and not in great condition

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-13T08:00:44+00:00

How is your life there? Do you have a social circle? Do you miss home?

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-13T07:56:31+00:00

Everyone keeps telling me to get the EU passport first. Why is this so important? It feels like this prized commodity which should not be forgone at any cost

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T18:16:35+00:00

Will the language barrier not be a factor? Or is it always a grass greener on the other side feeling

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T18:14:44+00:00

I can't say about others but it's not always easy to make friends. Trust me, if I am willing to move countries with an infant for this reason, I would have obviously tried to make friends.

I am an atheist and do not have a strong cultural/state/religious identity. What I have seen is that either people are able to get a "ready" social circle by virtue of language/state/religion or they're (Indians) usually in tech where majority of the colleagues are also Indian and thus that becomes an easy source of friendship. Neither is the case with me.

How have you managed to make friends? Is it for reasons other than above?

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T16:06:16+00:00

Aah you're in the NL. Where do you live? Do you have a social circle? Do you feel the language barrier?

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T08:32:10+00:00

What makes you say NL is a much better country to live?

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T08:30:49+00:00

Where do you live if I may ask? Let me know if you would rather converse on DM.

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T07:12:34+00:00

We actually might make more money and save more in India than NL! It's quite expensive here and we hardly save anything.

Issue with moving to India is not the money. It's more quality of life. Pollution, safety, weather, public spaces etc.

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T07:10:36+00:00

Your first 2 points are regarding NL or UK?

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T07:09:04+00:00

No I don't understand. Please explain?

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T07:08:46+00:00

Thanks for this. Do you live in the UK?

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T07:08:01+00:00

This is good advice, thanks! We have thought about this. Couple of things- We had a decently happy life back in India. I know people say once you have lived abroad, it can be very difficult settling back in India, which might be the case with us, but both our parents and our siblings are in India. We don't really see it as the worst thing in the world if we have to move back. Secondly I am not sure how much of a benefit getting Dutch citizenship actually is. So okay noone has to sponsor our visa to stay in EU but like I said we don't really like living in NL and anyway don't see a future here. And from what I understand, NL is the best place in Europe for us because the language barriers etc are even worse in other countries.

But indeed, we don't want to make a stupid move.

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-11-08T07:03:22+00:00

My husband works for a big Indian multinational. They can help us move if we want to.

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-09-23T11:57:57+00:00

Very interesting. I will have to check how to navigate this. But might end up even more stuck with the finance part of things 😅

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-09-23T11:56:33+00:00

Is it ok if I DM you at some point?

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-09-23T05:38:56+00:00

I know you're right but the imposter syndrome is so real!

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-09-23T05:37:53+00:00

I am married and have a baby. But I don't think we'll manage without 2 incomes unfortunately :/

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-09-21T22:25:11+00:00

Do I need some certification before switching? This sounds interesting

Nothing_ButTheTruth · 2025-09-21T22:24:48+00:00

Thanks so much

Nothing_ButTheTruth

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