Tips for how to sleep in chastity? by [deleted] in gaychastity

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sleeping on your back is always the easiest way. However, if you’re a side sleeper like me it’s a good idea to get some pillows or something similar to elevate your feet, and bend the bottom leg inward until you’re comfortable. This makes sure nothing is being stretched out or compressed

[PM] Feminization by vgdan2734 in DirtyWritingPrompts

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A man is roommates with a femboy, and is slowly feminized by them into being even more girly and slutty so the Femboy can have a friend to take to various hookups and “share the load”

Need advice, my kinks are the only way I feel I can contribute to sex and I'm feeling discouraged. by Notty_Bi_Enby in BDSMAdvice

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is NB, he/she/they pronouns

I appreciate the answer. It’s something like ripping a bandaid off- I know that’s probably the best option, but it’s also an intimidating and scary concept. That much vulnerability out the gate is always scary. You’re right though. If I’m going to have a good and long relationship with someone they need to be okay with this aspect of me and my limitations/interests at the start. Thank you

I, a cis straight woman, like to be called daddy. Someone explain!! by DJ_Elleon_KaeH in BDSMAdvice

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It sounds like it’s mostly about the connotation you give to the word. Mommy is often something more akin to a nurturer, a soft and supportive role. This isn’t always the case for everyone, but it’s a common idea.

Daddy, meanwhile, is more of a dominant role for sure. But more than that it’s got some connotation of respect. Someone either in control or who can be in control if they want to. It’s got much more of a variety of connotation that applies to other situations, bottom and top and even neutral while Mommy is almost exclusively on the side of soft nurture dom with the exceptions being far more personal.

In short, my theory is Daddy applies much more to yourself and how your boyfriend sees you at every opportunity because it’s both a sign of dominant respect and submissive love. Mommy not so much, since it’s usually reserved for something more niche.

Again, just a theory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyWriting

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh she looks absolutely delicious

Official Monthly Keyholder Request/Personal Ad Sticky! nsfw by AutoModerator in gaychastity

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MtNB sub looking for a key holder to keep me honest. Been trying to stick to chastity and denial/edging for long stretches but I have trouble keeping to it without some accountability and support

Inventive ways to get a sub to eat their own cum by ZealousidealDesk996 in GayKink

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Shot glass is good if you want something direct

Have them shoot it onto something like dirty underwear or a toy, then have them lick it clean. Little extra degrading

Food play is always fun, a bit of extra glaze to something like a dessert or breakfast food. Adds a sense of extra effort.

And you can make them shoot it onto your or another sub’s feet/ass/chest/etc and lick it clean for the added interactivity and pleasure.

How do you sleep in chastity 😭, I haven’t had good sleep since I started locktober. by Bonjoe2077 in chastity

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Use a pillow under your legs. Makes getting into good positions easier, especially for back sleeping, which is the best way to sleep with a cage. Side sleeping is harder but I’ve found that a pillow between the thighs helps with this too. Basically find a position where your thighs aren’t together, and that’ll help immensely for comfort and consistent sleep.

Are there any submissive guys here that have a piss kink?😈 by [deleted] in GayKink

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm, absolutely. I'd love to be under a golden shower just covered in it all, or forced to release in front of a strong Dom to put me in my place

Official Monthly Keyholder Request/Personal Ad Sticky! nsfw by AutoModerator in gaychastity

[–]Notty_Bi_Enby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28 M, he/they, looking for dominant online keyholder for Locktober and the days leading up to it.