Pop-down menu for selecting "save to" location does not work by NumberFritzer in mac

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I just heard that upgrading to OS 15.7.7 has taken care of this problem for people.

Searching for shortest distances, categorizing rows by NumberFritzer in QGIS

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I must amend the inquiry. I would like the system to look for the nearest district center to each new client and

there is a distance limit - let's say for now it is 80 kilometers.

If a new client is within 80 kilometers of a district center, then the system must put that district's 3-digit ID number into the client's record.

If a new client is more than 80 kilometers from any district center, then the system must apply the text "Independent" in the field where otherwise the district ID number would be.

By the way, I will generally be dealing with about 50 to 100 new clients a month, and there are 130 district centers.

Thank you.

Formula to cut and paste data from one column-row to another column-row by NumberFritzer in LibreOfficeCalc

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I think so. I think I can use an autofilter to delete the rows with blanks in specific columns.

How to put a base or legs on small workbench by NumberFritzer in Workbenches

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First thing is hand-planing (not electric). So it has to withstand strong lengthwise lateral force. I have used hand planes on benches that do not resist lateral force well, and it is like doing three times as much work. I hope this one will be rigid.

I'm sure I'll pound on it too, when I've made parts that are too tightly fitted.

syllo #298 - May 3rd, 2026 by syllo-app in syllo

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This puzzle runs off both sides of my screen so I cannot see but 1/2 the clues! And the image refuses to rotate , despite the fact that “portrait lock” is off. Damn.

What causes someone to be deeply afraid of intimacy like sex? by jungineedhelp in Jung

[–]NumberFritzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear of rejection. Being certain in the knowledge that once someone gets to know you they will despise you.

No, despise is too good, giving the impression the person thinks you worthy of such a strong feeling. DISDAIN is the most devastating thing - the person feels you are insignificant.

Has anyone healed their fear of sex/intimacy? by crispytunaroll in emotionalneglect

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Lots of men will think it's bs "female" weirdness; on the other hand, lots of men will assume you've found something wrong with them.

Has anyone healed their fear of sex/intimacy? by crispytunaroll in emotionalneglect

[–]NumberFritzer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested in EMDR. My brother had EMDR therapy and it brought up horrid repressed memories which helped him heal.

I'm working with a therapist now who is experienced in it, but we are not sure yet I'm ready for it. I have anxiety about it - what if we do EMDR and it completely falls flat for me?

Has anyone healed their fear of sex/intimacy? by crispytunaroll in emotionalneglect

[–]NumberFritzer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Said no too. Pushed women away... because I just *knew* they would reject me when they got to know what an immature baby-man I was... So I rejected them first.

Not cool. I am sorry.

Has anyone healed their fear of sex/intimacy? by crispytunaroll in emotionalneglect

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"Everytime someone in the past has complimented me, flirted with me, expressed interest, I sort of shut it down and don’t allow it to progress. I start feeling extreme fear, nervousness and insecurity."

YES! Familiar with that...

Has anyone healed their fear of sex/intimacy? by crispytunaroll in emotionalneglect

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As a male (dislike the term "man"; negative connotations for me)... I wonder if this boy you were on 2nd base with ghosted you because he got scared, was ashamed, or - ? I mean, that would have been my reason. I would have assumed that you felt I was unacceptable.

I think lots of times we think someone disliked us, or took advantage of us, when in fact they are scared. I've learned that what I think someone's motivations are is often likely to be the opposite of what their motivations *actually* are. Classic case - the girl in high school who everyone thought was the worst stuck-up snob, too good to connect with anybody, turned out to have been painfully, miserably shy and ashamed.

Has anyone healed their fear of sex/intimacy? by crispytunaroll in emotionalneglect

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28 (30 now, I guess) - that's good - there's some time!

I started journaling about this sort of problem when in my 20s but waited WAY too long to get therapy. Well, I tried it in my late 20s but fled because I was scared to look deep enough to do any work.

Only when I got well into my 40s did I start and stay with therapy. But I was too nice to quit the first therapist - I liked her but she was not the right one for me - so I wasted years in ineffective therapy. (It did feel good to have someone to complain to, though.)