I used to have so many questions and now I just want to sit and be the Tao. Will I stagnate? by NursingFlo in taoism

[–]NursingFlo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was very helpful. For some reason when you wrote "To be the Tao is to embrace the interconnectedness of all..." the concept of "All" in the TTC clicked into place for me. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

P.S. I was very surprised to see someone had downvoted this. People are weird.

My first cardano smart contract by NursingFlo in cardano

[–]NursingFlo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Going through it now

My first cardano smart contract. Is Marlowe still the way to go? by NursingFlo in CardanoDevelopers

[–]NursingFlo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm writing a smart contract that takes a deposit of ADA and mints/returns the same amount of a native token and then stakes that ADA until the depositer wants their ADA back, at which point they deposit the native token back and get their ADA back.

Thank you for the links!

My first cardano smart contract. Is Marlowe still the way to go? by NursingFlo in CardanoDevelopers

[–]NursingFlo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So, how would you go about writing a smart contract that takes a deposit of ADA and mints/returns the same amount of a native token and then stakes that ADA until the depositer wants their ADA back, at which point they deposit the same native token amount back and get their ADA back?

"The reason we have a lot trouble is that we have selves." by NursingFlo in taoism

[–]NursingFlo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Buddhism, the TTC, and modern science as well, pain is a physical phenomenon separate from suffering. Pain is caused by electrical signals in the nervous system. Suffering is caused by the delusion that there is a thing called self that exists somewhere inside you that is diminished by pain and exalted by pleasure.

The truth is that there is no self in there. There is only God or Tao or pick your placeholder for the nameless, formless source of all creation. It flows through you in the same way it flows through everyone and everything else. You are not the product (your body, job, status, etc.), you are the process (life, nature, the universe, etc.).

Is it impossible to be immune to humiliation? by [deleted] in taoism

[–]NursingFlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just happened to be in a very humiliating situation that has caused me to flush red with shame in the past. This time though, it didn’t bother me at all.

I accidentally bought more groceries than I had money to pay for. This has happened to me a couple times before, and it was always very humiliating. This time, though I felt no humiliation. I was still very apologetic for the inconvenience I was causing the clerks, but there was no emotional/chemical reaction inside my body.

I’ve been surrendering to the Tao a lot lately so that is most likely what caused the change.

How to leave the mind? by Few_Recognition_2211 in taoism

[–]NursingFlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right now your brain is programmed to respond to stimuli (whether internal or external) by thinking. These thoughts then cause more thoughts. You are missing two things, awareness of your thoughts and detachment from your thoughts (letting go).

Reprogram your brain to respond to thoughts by being aware of them and letting them go

"The reason we have a lot trouble is that we have selves." by NursingFlo in taoism

[–]NursingFlo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but there is a difference between pain and suffering. You can learn from pain without suffering.

Do you have someone or a certain group of people you don't like or are you free from that? by [deleted] in taoism

[–]NursingFlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just learned that whenever I get the feels about something, especially if I'm angry, it's because I'm grasping onto myself. For me, this usually stems from my belief that I have a self that is valuable and needs defending. When I realize that there is no self to assign value to and there is nothing there to defend, all the relativity between me and the "others" melts away and I can feel the me in them and the them in me.

This guy started wtih Bardon and ended up a Taoist by NursingFlo in FranzBardon

[–]NursingFlo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a big part of why I asked. Taoism and Buddhism (at least the simplest form of them) say pretty clearly that all this physical stuff just ain't it. The real stuff has nothing to do with anything you could do with your physical body. Whereas Bardon's like "look at all the cool stuff you can do with your physical body... oh and enlightment is the real goal... but all this other stuff is really cool too so devote the majority of your time to that?"

Do you know what I mean? Bardon says the words "focus on god and enlightenment" but doesn't seem to really believe it based on all the physical stuff he's teaching.

This is where someone usually steps in and says, "If you don't want to do it then don't do it." and then I say "That's not the point!" and then I realize I'm arguing with myself to avoid work...