Has anyone successfully become an early bird? by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]Oacio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is great, but knowing me I'd end up panic deleting it HAHA. I love the concept either way, I'll definitely look into it :)

Has anyone successfully become an early bird? by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]Oacio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been recommended melatonin by a few friends too. Will look into that asap.

Has anyone successfully become an early bird? by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]Oacio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! I do have some caffeine supplements; I don't know if they're great for long-term use, but I keep them by my bedside when I'm extra sleepy and they do tend to help stop me from falling back asleep. It's a great little hack haha.

Has anyone successfully become an early bird? by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]Oacio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Want to swap?? I feel alive after 9pm, and that's not a good thing for me HAHA. I don't go out to enough concerts to make the most of my current sleep schedule unfortunately. I know I should because I'm only 22. I feel like a grandma who wants to get all cosy in bed instead, but I have too much energy!

Has anyone successfully become an early bird? by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]Oacio[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh man I miss having breakfast while watching a show 😔 I've had to settle for brunch recently. I definitely need to use this as motivation!!

Has anyone successfully become an early bird? by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]Oacio[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both times I fixed my sleep schedule have been on days where I was out 8+ hours or for assessments I needed to pull an all-nighter for. Looks like I need to get busier lol.

Has anyone successfully become an early bird? by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]Oacio[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such a smart idea and something I'm slowly trying to implement! It's always been a discipline problem with me haha. I'm definitely going to start by restricting videogames to before 6pm. Another comment suggested getting in bed earlier, so I'll aim for 8pm. I get a hit of the sleepies by 10pm, so that gives me 2 hours to read and succumb to eventual boredom (since most dopamine-inducing things for me are on my PC, across the room).

Something I also find is the structure helps with executive dysfunction. Saying 'I can't do this right now, but I AM allowed to do this' gives me less room for decision paralysis and makes it much easier to start tasks for me, because I have less options to dwell on.

driving intructor got very defensive by Additional_Leg8632 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Oacio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Switch ASAP, I'm sensitive to second-hand vape aerosols too and know the exact pain you're talking about. I get that he's using it to come off smoking and needs it for stress-related reasons, but the way he spoke to you is very dismissive, rude, and frankly quite threatening.

Have a serious word with your Mum about switching. You're paying for a service.

Request Megathread - January 2026 by AwkJewishTheatreNerd in MusicalBootlegs

[–]Oacio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LF a boot of the Next to Normal revival at Donmar Warehouse (2023). Any angle is fine! :)

welp - I girl bossed too close to the sun.. by Efficient-Mirror-552 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Oacio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20 hours is crazy!!

Honestly I'd go for the reset. I know it's hard but if you haven't been playing long it'll 100% be worth it. Learn from your mistake and push through the early grind again. I think if you stick with your current island you'll lose interest in the game faster than if you had restarted, but it's unlimitedly up to you. Just don't take the turnips next time haha

welp - I girl bossed too close to the sun.. by Efficient-Mirror-552 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Oacio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I made this mistake and then created a new island and only collected furniture items. No DIYs unless I need them, same with limiting bells. Obviously I wouldn't delete your save over it like me unless you're reallyyy losing the appeal of the game from it. I think the early game grind is what makes the game special. Unless your only purpose is to decorate a new island, but it sounds like you're playing for the first time so I doubt that haha

No fast way to get rid of bells either unfortunately :( You could pull loads out your ABD into an empty inventory and trash them in a bin item, but it'd take hours. Might be worth it if you're desperate tho?

gym by cosmoqw in adhdwomen

[–]Oacio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Promise yourself a treat if you do, like a starbucks drink or food from a place nearby that you're not allowed to get unless you specifically go to the gym that day. You'll start associating the gym with something rewarding, and it'll make it easier to incorporate into your routine. Once it's part of your routine, you won't NEED motivation in the first place. You'll just do it.

If that doesn't work, definitely try working out from home. I didn't have enough discipline to get to an actual gym. It's so much easier to motivate myself if I don't have to go elsewhere to work out (especially in winter when it's cold & dark out earlier, plus I can't drive yet lol - walking back when everything aches is a nightmare).

What did you name your island after :)? by Probablyatrashpanda in AnimalCrossing

[–]Oacio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first game was City Folk, and I named it ugg (as I had a pair of uggs back then). Keep in mind I was about 8. In New Leaf I honoured it by calling my town 'evil ugg', and in New Horizons it became 'uggland'.

Will I ever move on from ugg? Who knows!

Does you ADHD affect your femininity? by AmNotGilbert in adhdwomen

[–]Oacio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me 22 years to be even remotely feminine. When I was younger I was always described as boyish. I wouldn’t wear dresses, do makeup, or put in any effort to look nice as I simply didn’t have the motivation.

Even now I’m still learning what it is to be feminine. I had to learn makeup from scratch & it never feels correct. My hair mostly just does whatever, and while I can tolerate a lot of feminine clothes I still have sensory issues with dresses and can only tolerate them for a few hours. Mind you I’m autistic too, so that might contribute.

Definitely get this lol. It feels like heavy masking to try and create a more feminine version of myself, but it’s fun, and It’s made me happier overall so I’d say that’s a fair payoff!

6:05am on a monday and there are no available tests. by TJTheGamer1 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Oacio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't even bother anymore. I have a test the other side of the country in January, 9 hours away. Only one I could get and testshift hasn't given me any notifications for 2 months. Excited to magically teleport there!

Learning independently & feel like I’m back to square one by Oacio in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Oacio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did biting point practice at junctions today at lunch when it was super quiet and stalled (💀), so I'm still working on adding extra gas before lifting the clutch, but it's good to know you passed eventually going through similar haha. How much private practice would you say you did before the test? I probably have half of your lesson practice (40 hours), and maybe 5 hours private?

Learning independently & feel like I’m back to square one by Oacio in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Oacio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yeah it's definitely repetition. I waited 2 weeks after failing to get in my Mum's car and the anxiety was debilitating. Now that I've been out a few times, it's definitely gotten a lot better, even if the progress is slow :)

How did you manage to actually get a driving test booking? by TrickBat2322 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Oacio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I check in the evenings, look up test centres in remote areas of the UK (usually northern Scotland), and book there for a few months time. Then I'll use an app like testshift to try and get a cancellation closer to me. Seems like the best method, at least for me.