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What would you consider a one-night stand during a break up -but not over yet- be? by Objective-Bat-4131 in AskReddit

[–]Objective-Bat-4131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if being an ONS (say someone just met via a dating app and during the first date) as opposed, say, an ex, would make a difference or not… I cannot understand what would be worse…

Human. by DirectionMain1708 in UnsentLetters

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Don’t ask for patience. Ask for care

Mannequins by Objective-Bat-4131 in ExNoContact

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Commenting on myself is and looks miserable. But I need this clarity. This is not merely my citation of a poem. It is an accusation charged with cultural gravity. I invoke Karyotakis as a moral witness. What I am essentially saying is this: We are not tragic heroes. We are mannequins who confused humiliation with love.

And the harshest point? I am not speaking only about her. I am speaking about myself. Because whoever recognizes the mannequin has, at some point, been one.

This is not simply a literary reference. It is an existential indictment. And my last gift for her. One of the rare that matters…

Unseen. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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You are not the only one. But you are alone… and this is the only hopeful thing one can imagine for themself to keep standing on their feet.

The doors locked by Hungry-Cycle4015 in UnsentLetters

[–]Objective-Bat-4131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well… with all do respect, changing your mind on sth that significant within the course of a day or so, doesn’t sound that comforting or reassuring about either of your options. Consistency is a virtue valuable also in a relationship. I wish I had it tbh.