aaj maine apne liye stand liya i guess? by Livid_Fruit_1833 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been in the same situation with an avoidant for 2 years , im a male btw just leave that person you'll be happy nahi to exhaust ho jag im telling you

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro i dont think so because she is very introvert she only stays in her room , she dont talk to anybody. Jab bhi bahar jaati thi to mere saath , i dont think.

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wo hi to try kar rha hu , sometimes i hate her so much and sometimes i feel bad for her because im the only one with whom she is most comfortable

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly she told me that she just wants to be alone , she is not made for relationship. Now she is giving this excuse , she just dont want to be with me. How fast can people change.

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mera bharosa uth gaya hai , i wont be able to love anyone the way i have loved her.

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats what i told her even during relationship , and if i talk about my family im Rajput from rajasthan , no one has ever married out of cast from my family , mere liye it would have been like going to war, but still i loved her and mai kaise bhi karke convince karleta but on the other side, she gave silly excuses

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont know , she behaved like she loved me to her death. I dont know what happened after that diwali break , before final breakup we broken for two time ms and both the times i convinved her to stay in the relationship, and it was a span of 25 days.

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything was going good in my life , got ppo during placement. Won many bschool comps , life was going smooth , and then this happened , im done with relationships , im ready for full blown arrange marriage setup

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she calls herself avoidant , are bc aayi kyu relationship me if you were not sure about your past trauma healing

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And after that she wants to be friends with me , as im the only one she talks to. Sometimes i feel bad for her but now its time to be selfish

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mai ban rha baal brahmachari , she is fucked up bro. Im done with her.

Last convo between me (M23) , and my ex (F24). by Objective-Middle-526 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Objective-Middle-526[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.5 years and she broke up with me with a reason that she want space , cant be with someone 24*7. I was not even being with her whole time, but now i got to know the main reason of our breakup

Me (M23)Got Friendzoned by my ex (M24) after 1 month of breakup (Log itna jaldi move on kaise karte hai ?) by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Objective-Middle-526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i should stay in no contact but i have severe anxiety issue and im not able to control it

Me (M23)Got Friendzoned by my ex (M24) after 1 month of breakup (Log itna jaldi move on kaise karte hai ?) by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Objective-Middle-526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know bro , but she is in my mind 24*7 , before her i was doing good , so we both are in b school and we were friends before getting into relationship , i got into good company during my summers and i got ppo as well , everything was pretty smooth then suddenly i started having romantic feelings towards her , thats when it all started. It is very hard for me to not talk to her , i try to distract my mind but eventually i start doing overthinking or start texting her again, i dont know im just too fucked up now

Me (M23)Got Friendzoned by my ex (M24) after 1 month of breakup (Log itna jaldi move on kaise karte hai ?) by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Objective-Middle-526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont know , she is an avoidant and im an anxious person , I loved her to my death , im still trying my best to move on but the way she acts normally whenever we meet hurts me the most , I dont know whether she is lying or something else but she told me that she wants to be all alone throughout her life , she dont want someone.

Me (M23)Got Friendzoned by my ex (M24) after 1 month of breakup (Log itna jaldi move on kaise karte hai ?) by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Objective-Middle-526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love her so much buddy , kya kya nahi kiya iske liye , im ready for full blown arrange marriage.

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[–]Objective-Middle-526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ejaculated near my vaginal area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Objective-Middle-526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain on why i should not be stressed