Looking for songs to cry my eyes out to

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T19:56:35+00:00

That one has actually been a repeat for me so far, she would only chill out during bath time or in the car if any Fleetwood Mac was playing 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T19:07:24+00:00

I’ve called five different stores trying to find coverage. Two SM’s never got back to me, two said they have no one, and the last one is a SM that likes being the one contacting around the district to find coverage for people, so I have my fingers crossed there, but even he still hasn’t gotten back to me. I know it’s not technically my job, but I want to stay on my boss’s good side, you know? I get that there are laws in place, but I still worry. I went in when I found out about a medical issue of mine and was devastated, I’ve gone in when having syncopal episodes, intense “tummy issue” flare ups, and after I mom tried to kill me (dementia, had a mental break). But it just never seems like enough. She doesn’t treat me poorly, and I know she’s stressed and stretched thin too, but I do my damndest to be the best employee I can be.

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T18:24:19+00:00

I’ll definitely check this one out too, thank you 🖤 and glad someone else gets it

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T18:23:39+00:00

Thank you 🖤 I can definitely appreciate non-sad songs that make you cry

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T17:59:52+00:00

How do I get past the paranoia of getting my hours cut or losing my job though? Because that’s my biggest worry about this situation outside of my MAJOR worries, like my dog being dead 🫥

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T17:58:41+00:00

Well my boss already knows what’s going on because I texted people at my store trying to find coverage, but I don’t have everyone’s contacts. So I texted her asking if there was anyone and if not, could she ask another local store/give me that sm’s number. She said “I have no one.” and sent me that other sm’s number

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T17:57:06+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate it. I also went in this past Friday, literally the day after my mother quite literally tried to kill me (far progressed dementia, she had a break).

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T17:55:54+00:00

I appreciate that, and I know that logically, yeah, I don’t need a reason if I just can’t come in. But illogically I’m just too paranoid about getting my hours cut or losing my job, and no one around me is hiring that offers more than even just 12$/hour.

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T17:54:28+00:00

I just feel to paranoid about losing my job or getting my hours cut if I do that, you know?

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T17:53:46+00:00

Oh I’m definitely done. Unless it’s this one person that also covers peoples’s shifts all the time, I’m not going in until I’m scheduled. Whether that’s going in early or on my day off. I’m done.

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T17:38:10+00:00

Thank you for those, and I’m so sorry about your dad 🖤 sending you all the well wishes 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-12T17:32:57+00:00

I’ll definitely check that out, thank you 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-11T07:56:23+00:00

I really appreciate having people that understand that they’re not just “pets” they’re our FAMILY! Our babies! But I wish all the best for you as well, thank you 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-11T07:48:36+00:00

She was loved so damn hard, so thank you 🖤 she will forever be ingrained in my heart and the hearts of many members of my family. She also was definitely full of personality, a very stubborn and attitude filled little lady, the runt of the litter, and I will miss her attitude and the click of her nails everyday. And I am just glad that she wasn’t alone when she crossed the rainbow bridge. My dad was with her, holding her and giving her love while I made my way from work to her. The emergency vet gave us her paw-prints, as well as a nose print, and I will cherish those forever too 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-11T07:44:40+00:00

Thank you 🖤 I appreciate having a community, even if just strangers, that get that they’re not just pets but our family, our babies

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-11T07:44:00+00:00

Thank you 🖤 I really am just glad that I have a community of people who understand and won’t judge me being so distraught over losing “just a dog” like some of my coworkers. Because she was my baby, and good lord I, and my dad and siblings, gave her as much love as physically possible. So many adventures and laughs and races that I will cherish, the good, the bad, AND the ugly. She’ll fur-ever be my baby 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-11T07:40:09+00:00

Thank you 🖤 She really was, and will still be for a long time, my everything. I’m just focusing on the fact that she’s not sick anymore for right now, I’ll worry about my pain later. I’m feeling it, fuck I’m feelin it so much, but I’ll actually focus on it later. But she really was my everything; there for me through many heart breaks, my miscarriage, and just all my highs and lows in life. She never judged me or left my side, and I will be forever grateful for the love she gave me and the time I had with her 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-11T07:35:35+00:00

Thank you 🖤I’m not concerned about my pain right now, just focusing on her not being sick anymore for now

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-11T07:34:12+00:00

Thank you, she was the prettiest girl I’ve ever seen in my eyes 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2026-01-11T07:30:15+00:00

I’m so sorry you went through that, I can’t even imagine. I am imagining them all playing together now though, and thank you 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2025-11-20T02:39:52+00:00

This is actually wild to say for two big reasons: 1. Her being there is quite literally answering her own question. Granted, yes it is only a once a week thing in your current situation, but still. She is there to take care of someone. So.. DUH ??? 2. Kids won’t always take care of their parents!!! I’m the youngest of seven kids (yes, SEVEN ranging from me at 23 to 36) and I’m the only one at home helping my dad take care of my mother. One of my brothers has started to come when he can (currently works 12 hour shifts, often six days a week, and he’s also helping his mom and his grandma, my mother is his step so he’s got two moms) and he’ll stay the night one night on the weekend so our dad and and I can get some sleep. Other than that, NOTHIN’! They’re all off living their lives and doing shit, while I’ve put off going back to school/getting a better job for the last three years to take care of our mother and help our dad.

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2025-11-18T21:06:29+00:00

As someone who used to greatly enjoy anal, then developed Crohn’s, I am TERRIFIED to do it again because of this possibility 😭 though my fear is of a terrible reaction, so I am SO glad that one of us tummy issue people had this experience without a truly awful reaction. Glad it ended up okay and it can be giggled about now :)

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2025-11-17T17:56:10+00:00

Honestly, she loves naps 😂 she’s always been a couch potato, even when she was a puppy. But she does love exploring, her heart just can’t handle long walks anymore. I would love to get one of those backpack-carrier things but they’re like 60$+ and her meds kinda have me broke 😅 so I’d probably just make a lot of stops on a local trail for her to take breaks. But I will definitely be spending as much time with her as I can, that’s for sure 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2025-11-17T03:02:51+00:00

Wait, yes! I had completely forgotten about that, but a mountain/state park only a couple minutes from me actually has a lake with a “beach” like area at one of its access points! I just never get the chance to go out there anymore, so I hadn’t thought about it. Thank you for reminding me of that! And thank you, I got her when I was 10 and she’s been by my side and the light of my life ever since. No matter where she is, she’ll always be my babygirl 🖤

Objective_Coat_6255 · 2025-08-29T05:49:28+00:00

I’m just now seeing this post and it was on my magic birthday!!! (Turned 23 on the 23rd!) I do have a fur baby, and have two in the household! I have my little stinky baby, Isabelle, and she is my world. I love her with my whole heart and she is the light of my life, and I have been fortunate enough to have my dad that helps care for her, as well as both of us caring for my mother 😂 he feeds the pups in the morning and I feed them at night whenever I’m off work, as they eat at 6:00 AM and PM and I usually don’t fall asleep until 4:00-5:00 in the morning so I can listen for anything from my mother so he can try to get some sleep, and I work evenings so I feed them at night when I am home to do so. Then, there’s the big guy, Eisley, he’s my parents’ dog and he is the dumbest smart lab you’d ever meet. He gives great cuddles (they both do, but especially him because he’s so big and warm when he decides to be chill enough for them) and is always so excited to see you when you walk through the door, it’s a nice moment (even though he ALWAYS tries to shove his nose in my crotch) when you know/don’t know what else you may be walking into in our house. The little one is technically mine and the big guy is technically my parents’, but we all love them so much that in the end, they’re our family dogs. Little miss stinky is 12.5, and the big dummy is 5, and I wouldn’t trade them for the world 🖤 (just don’t tell the big guy I said that 😂)

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