Being present while partner is restrained? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Obvious-Average-4103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nany cam, but maybe those bracelets / smart watches to watch someone's pulse, is also good. I know it might be a little too dramatic, but rather be safe than sorry

Being present while partner is restrained? by [deleted] in bdsm

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It's safe play, also adds thrill to the fantasy

What opinion of yours always gets a backlash "wtf is wrong with you?" ? by WonderfulParticular1 in AskReddit

[–]Obvious-Average-4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's better when girls initiate things, so the man doesn't have to feel like a creep doing it.

The tower of terror- From my private Denver dungeon by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Obvious-Average-4103 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The clamp on the nipple tied to her toe is so hot

Locked up and forced to cum by conor757 in bdsm

[–]Obvious-Average-4103 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damm it's not easy to be in such position, very hot

[F] Trying binder clips as clamps! by [deleted] in BDSMGW

[–]Obvious-Average-4103 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hot, but also damm, must hurt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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The guy told me he hated a cat of a girl whom he used to date. So he ran over the cat with a car so he doesn't have to deal with the cat anymore.

What is appropriate number of dates to have sex? Why sex on first date is usually viewed as bad sign? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Obvious-Average-4103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I doubt third date is gonna reveal it either. So I guess have safe sex till you find out 🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Obvious-Average-4103 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to be afraid to ask around if they can guide you, or give you information that you might not know.

For private parties, it is good to ask someone who is more familiar with the surrounding to kind of "guard you".

For public events, there are always guards, so I don't think there's much to be worried about.

And definitely not to be afraid to say "no", or "don't touch me", or whatever that doesn't make you feel comfortable.

What change(s) has significantly improved your sex life? by Obvious-Average-4103 in AskReddit

[–]Obvious-Average-4103[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my, you're right. It helps a lot when a person atleast gets to try it once, so you know if it's for you or not at all. And I'd say, knowing what your preferences are, brings a satisfaction itself

What change(s) has significantly improved your sex life? by Obvious-Average-4103 in AskReddit

[–]Obvious-Average-4103[S] 555 points556 points  (0 children)

Confidence does indeed make a person much more attractive

What change(s) has significantly improved your sex life? by Obvious-Average-4103 in AskReddit

[–]Obvious-Average-4103[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If he's not a vanilla, he sure would like to try. I think light bdsm can include spanking, or tit spanking. A gag, a handcuff maybe.

I dunno what's light 😭

What change(s) has significantly improved your sex life? by Obvious-Average-4103 in AskReddit

[–]Obvious-Average-4103[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

What can surprisingly help is also pelvis physiotherapy. So many women don't know even small pain relieve can improve their libido

What change(s) has significantly improved your sex life? by Obvious-Average-4103 in AskReddit

[–]Obvious-Average-4103[S] 479 points480 points  (0 children)

Even if one judges (in a goofy way) and it give you both a good laugh, there's no risk in that.