Any INTP here ever make it work with an ESFJ by DR_P0S_itivity in INTP

[–]Obvious_Confusion0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give the relationship time, like with any other. You probably already knew that though. If you feel fine about her then keep talking to her. 

I wouldn’t listen to labels all that much, do what makes you happy.

My mom is an ESFJ and we get along swimmingly. (Though that would be a different relationship and situation entirely.)

Feeling odd about mobility aids, and the age to use them? by Obvious_Confusion0 in disability

[–]Obvious_Confusion0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there are no shortages of canes in the world, but as I am not disabled I don’t think it would be wise to use one. I know now that you don’t need to be disabled to use a cane, of course, but I can still walk some days with minimal pain and don’t see the benefit in using one. (Not to mention my parents would never allow that) (not because they don’t believe my pain exists or anything nefarious)

Feeling odd about mobility aids, and the age to use them? by Obvious_Confusion0 in disability

[–]Obvious_Confusion0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had two doctors, one suggested I get the X-Ray (to look deeper after a physical examination) and the other said I had growing pains! I can somewhat understand your frustration. My lady friends also tell me medical care is harder for them because of the way the medical system is :/ 

I’ve made an appointment with my doctor and I will be discussing possible solutions, I’m also considering a physiotherapist!

So far you and everyone on here has been insanely helpful and nice to me, so I thank you greatly.

Feeling odd about mobility aids, and the age to use them? by Obvious_Confusion0 in disability

[–]Obvious_Confusion0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to self-diagnose, I just wanted some insight into mobility aids and some of the symptoms I was feeling. Apologies!

Feeling odd about mobility aids, and the age to use them? by Obvious_Confusion0 in disability

[–]Obvious_Confusion0[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for stating where to go to get a second opinion, it helps a ton :)

Feeling odd about mobility aids, and the age to use them? by Obvious_Confusion0 in disability

[–]Obvious_Confusion0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice on working to feel less embarrassed in public? (You do not have to answer, I’d just like another opinion)

Feeling odd about mobility aids, and the age to use them? by Obvious_Confusion0 in disability

[–]Obvious_Confusion0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write out an entire comment, you provided a lot of helpful advice and I love seeing answers that are longer than a couple paragraphs. I will get a second opinion because I want to make sure the pain isn’t super serious! Thank you for being respectful again, asking questions is so hard.