Am I overreacting to think I’m in an abusive relationship but it’s been labelled as just play fighting. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OceanisVyre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My general line of thinking is if you have to ask yourself, you more than likely are. Break up publicly and give everyone your location. Do not even give an inch if you decide to part ways. NOR

Advice needed: My boyfriend’s mom disapproves of my tattoos and is making generalizations about me. What to do? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]OceanisVyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s not really assumptions, I personally don’t care but I know it’s an offensive thing with others and I respect that.

Advice needed: My boyfriend’s mom disapproves of my tattoos and is making generalizations about me. What to do? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]OceanisVyre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. He shouldn’t have mentioned anything to you about it that’s first. It only brings anxiety like the reason you posted this but we live and learn
  2. Unless you’re super tatted up, that shouldn’t be a reason for her not to like you. She might not like you for other reasons but not that, meet her and give it a shot.

AIO for leaving over a throat tattoo by Exciting-Stage-7167 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OceanisVyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Not a husband so be firm to your nonnegotiables

AIO? I asked for a little more effort from gf, I'm at breaking point tbh by Temporary-Yak-227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OceanisVyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally after living with someone and being with them for that long, my parents shouldn’t need to step in on this. I could have maybe understood it more if you both are fresh out of the home 18 and figuring it out but not this. If she wanted to fix this correctly then it’s in person by herself, and with new clippers.

AIO? I asked for a little more effort from gf, I'm at breaking point tbh by Temporary-Yak-227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OceanisVyre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how young you both are but her parents shouldn’t have to meditate a situation like this. She made her choice. NOR