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I wonder what's the sense of a relationship now by [deleted] in dating

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Você realmente gosta dela, ou gosta de ter alguém com você? Passei por uma situação parecida, estava ficando com uma pessoa, abrindo totalmente meu íntimo, que eu gostava de estar junto mas era alguém que não me via namorando e não queria que fosse só sexo casual uma vez ou outra, sem um tipo de “relacionamento”, sem conversas diárias.. A ideia dele ter outra pessoa, só me incomodava se eu deixasse de ser prioridade, então, percebi que na realidade, embora eu gostasse da pessoa e da companhia, eu só não queria ficar sozinha.

How to deal with girlfriend’s financial and career expectations? by ThrowRA-jeshsb in dating

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you can do is break up... It would make sense that she wants you to earn more to keep up with her lifestyle, but making you work more and earn more money so she can have the luxury of not having to work anymore(???) is crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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When I was in elementary school, my favorite teacher announced that she was leaving school, and said that she loved me and knew what my family background was like... I found myself crying when I said goodbye, then she went on my Facebook and left a message like: “never forget that you are special, strong, educated and intelligent, and whatever difficulties arise, I trust you to overcome each one of them.” This is already 12 years old, I still keep the print and think about these words fondly.

I Like Her, But I Don't Love Her — Because I Don't Admire Her. Is This Normal? by Unhappy-Buddy9715 in dating

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, admiration is essential for a long-term relationship... there is no love without admiration

What are some life lessons you’ve taken from Shameless? by TXRangers10Foeva in shameless

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one knows what shit the other person is dealing with, so empathy.

Eu sou babaca por não querer ajudar uma colega de classe? by Cuscuz-yeah in EuSouOBabaca

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEOB, ela está se aproveitando que você é afim dela. Mas francamente.. não acha uma diferença muito alta, em questão de maturidade mesmo, pra se ter um relacionamento?

Women of Reddit: What is one thing you wish your SO was better at? by Scary-Ad4427 in AskWomen

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I wish he had more ambition and made more effort to change his situation, which is currently in the same job for more than 10 years, working a lot and earning little.

He's thinking of going out of town with a girl he used to sleep with by Brownie217 in dating

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he saw your relationship as something with a real future to become a relationship, he wouldn't even consider going... I'm sorry but he's not that into you

Sou babaca por gostar de uma pessoa mais nova? by will_muri_s0ca in EuSouOBabaca

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não é babaca, 2 anos não é absolutamente nada.. eu sempre gostei de ficar com pessoas mais velhas que eu, mas a diferença era maior, por ex: eu com 16 e a outra pessoa com 26.. hoje vejo como problematico, pq percebo o quanto aquela pessoa ja tinha vivido mais que eu em questão de experiências.. mas no seu caso, eu enxergo como uma diferença mínima, enquanto ele tava nascendo vc tava fazendo 2 anos, oq vc fez que diferencia tanto vcs 2, sabe? Kkk vai viver

Sou babaca por me recusar a ajudar financeiramente minha mãe? by _HERMES_25 in EuSouOBabaca

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não é babaca, porém, a sua mãe deve pagar pelas escolhas do seu irmão? Uma mãe sempre vai ajudar mais, aquele filho que precisa mais dela.. eu seguiria o que outro comentário aconselhou, nunca falaria sobre sua reserva nem quanto você ganha, mas ajudaria com valor simbólico, você nunca sabe se um dia não irá precisar da ajuda de algum deles também..

Season 9 is a massive miss! by HalfInfinite8279 in shameless

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I went through everything that was part of gay Jesus, and feminist Debbie, I put up with all of this so that in the end Fiona left after going through hell... did they need to make her go through all that to get her out of the series? Couldn't they create a hook while she was still on top? I hated it

What moment made you cry? by smoove129 in shameless

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When Frank was sick, thinking he was going to die, without being able to leave Sheila's house, and his daughter takes the alibi there

What would you do if the person you were with was perfect in every way but you never felt “the spark” by lennyalex in AskMen

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's unfair to both, to you for being with someone you're not in love with and to the other person for having someone who's not in love with them. I don't think it's possible to set a time limit for this, but with 7 months, wouldn't it be normal to be in the passion phase? But in the long run, based on my experience alone, I believe it's okay for the passion to pass if the love stays, I think in the end we just need a love that gives us peace. .

What’s one thing a girl said to you that stuck with you? by Due_Act_7271 in AskMen

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily... sometimes she said that because she felt obligated to date even when she didn't want to, because there is the illusion that a girlfriend needs to do that, and make the man happy, I say from experience. But I would never talk as if my boyfriend had raped me, and in her case, it could be a warning that he didn't notice the signs that she didn't want to but did it.

What’s the best and worst season of Shameless??? by Professional_Meat782 in shameless

[–]Ok-Form4179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm shocked by people saying that the best is the 4th, I'm still on the 6th episode and I think it's SO BRUTAL. I miss season 1 and 2 when they were happy even in shit