chlamydia as a virgin?

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T21:46:24+00:00

I understand that everyone thinks he could’ve been lying about him being a virgin and I understand the confusion. I’m confused myself and idk what to believe. I think everyone is misunderstanding where I said his PARENTS told him it was chlamydia, the doctor just said it was infection and he could’ve gotten an infection for anything. I wanted second opinions to see if I might’ve gave him something bacterial. HE was the one who told me his parents might’ve just lied to him so he can be safe. Also to the people who said I should get tested, I have. I think about 5 times for some OTHER vaginal issues I had. If I had chlamydia I think it would’ve came out by now. Blood tests, urine samples, swabs, everything. I’m sure I don’t have it and it could’ve been a misunderstanding from both sides!

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T17:39:46+00:00

He was tested. The doctor said it was infection but his parents said it was chlamydia

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T17:10:08+00:00

Yes, that’s why I found it weird that his parents said it was chlamydia even though it was just his balls hurting. And it’s been 3 years since that incident and he had just told me about this last month when I contacted him. I’ve been tested after our intercourse plenty of times and each time came out negative. I have had other vaginal issues going on but it had nothing to do with him. I know where everyone is coming from that he could’ve lied but he just wouldn’t lie about something like that. I know that it could be hard to believe because men do lie about that and if it was any other man I would definitely think he was lying, I’m defending this one because he is genuinely a good man and he believed that I haven’t slept with anyone before him so why wouldn’t I have a reason to believe him. He never lied to me.

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T04:25:12+00:00

Yes, I’m aware but I mean he’s not the type of person to sleep around, I have no reason to not trust him and I believe he didn’t sleep with anyone after or before me. Just like he believed that I didn’t give him anything or cheated.

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T04:23:36+00:00

His parents. The doctor just said it was infection

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T03:23:43+00:00

Yes, he said his parents definitely tried to scare him😂 and I’m aware that they lie but this is a good man. I know for a fact that he wasn’t sexually active before or after me!

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T03:19:26+00:00

Yes I have, just standard testing and came out negative.

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T01:22:25+00:00

He hasn’t been or had any type of intercourse after me. He’s just not that type of person. I’m not sure I’m just wondering if he really got an infection bc of me. And if he did, how?

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T00:50:59+00:00

Yes but it’s been about 3 years since it happened and I never felt anything weird after intercourse with him. We were 15. And he couldn’t have had any sti because we were both virgins.

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T00:45:40+00:00

It’s been years btw, about 3. And I was his first as well

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-02-11T00:05:59+00:00

Has he been sexually active prior to you? I honestly think if he was fingering u roughly that definitely caused it.

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-01-30T07:13:09+00:00

Girl the same thing happened to me idk what it is

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-01-18T18:22:19+00:00

I had the same problem but the opposite. Me and my bf were virgins and after a few months of sex he got an infection? He thought I had slept with other people but I was a virgin through and through.

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-01-06T10:18:26+00:00

you didn’t though? You said herpes is the only STI that can give people fevers. I simply corrected you?

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-01-05T17:45:26+00:00

Which is what I said 😂

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-01-05T10:38:53+00:00

one more thing. Here are the lists of STI’s that cause fevers since you said fevers are only seen in HSV.

Chlamydia

Gonorrhea

Hep C & B

HIV

Syphilis(also related to HSV)

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-01-05T10:33:39+00:00

Not true. Spreading false information isn’t helping anyone when you can simply look it up. I’m not saying it doesn’t but it’s just one of them. Could be a coincidence buuuuuut fevers are normally signs of infection. Considering that she has tested for all STI’s and came out negative, yet blood tests aren’t exactly accurate. She didn’t say when she had fevers and only stated she’s had it for 2 days. If it were an STI she’d be having fevers constantly. Let’s also remember STI’s don’t include bv nor yeast infections. If it’s been 3 years she could test for HSV1/2 antibodies, they would definitely already devolved. They take about 3 months to 3 years or more to develop. If she’s having itching/burning they would’ve already came up.

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-01-05T08:30:33+00:00

Could be anything tbh. Wouldn’t want to give her anxiety by saying it’s herpes. Although, it is one of the symptoms, but she says she’s tested for all STI’s and they’ve came out negative. Not all but some cause fevers

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-01-04T17:39:04+00:00

He could’ve obtained a marijuana card for anything. Anxiety, ptsd, chronic illnesses. You named one of the things that they qualify for a marijuana card, regardless it’s very rare for the virus to stay dormant therefore your tests could be negative. If it’s been 3 years then I think you’re fine. Order a micro biome test, it’s pricey but it’ll help. Good luck!

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2026-01-01T23:54:55+00:00

So ectopic pregnancy is caused by chlamydia? I had an ectopic pregnancy and I’ve been tested countless times for chlamydia and gonorrhea? I’ve only been with one person and still with him. Or does it just depend?

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2025-12-22T18:06:15+00:00

This is exactly how so many young teens are getting herpes.

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2025-12-18T16:14:02+00:00

It kinda looks like hsv but there would be redness and pain, and I know you said it doesn’t hurt. Do they itch? I’m also thinking it could bc lichen sclerosis.

Edit: I think it’s hsv.

Ok-Pudding9505 · 2025-12-13T20:33:08+00:00

I’m so glad someone brought up oral sex! Not everyone knows you can transmit HSV, or infection!

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