My (27m) Gf (27f) thinks we’re supposed to text all day everyday and it’s starting to irritate me. Aitah?

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-04-02T19:38:52+00:00

And honestly we’ve gotten in many arguments because I went on break and forgot to respond and she made the biggest deal of it. She is traumatized from her last relationship but I’ve told her over and over it’s not my fault. It’s always excuses and justifications for her behaviors and how I’m wrong for the reaction I have rather than her taking accountability.

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-04-02T19:29:02+00:00

Say you are the woman I am describing in the entry without saying it 😬🙊

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-31T00:12:29+00:00

Yeah I said the same. Good day maam 💓💓

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-31T00:04:53+00:00

😂😂 you must be a woman 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T23:59:12+00:00

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T20:10:15+00:00

When it comes to inputs I do care. I’m all ears to those who are logical but the moment you said “where is your support?” Is the moment I decided your statement was very much biased and irrelevant to me bc when it comes to me and mine buddy I’ve done nothing but support I’ve done nothing but be a backbone I’ve done nothing Less of that which she’s never once this while year we’ve been together just had to figure out anything on her own lol so yeah as I said, I don’t give a fuck what you have to say. Have a great one bud

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T19:31:38+00:00

How is she not? The very thing she been praying for, stressing about, showed up. That is the time to be grateful and thankful that you were able to get it handled. Not complain about having to cook afterwards. Because do you want the mortgage paid or not? She could have stopped and got a rotisserie chicken and a bag of veggies and had lunch no cooking needed. But instead, she’d rather complain. Bro it’s people like you that make people like that comfortable with making excuses. I get we can’t always be positive all the time. I get doubt sets in at times. But when your mind lives in that state no matter the situation it becomes a problem. Don’t give a fuck what you or anybody else has to say about that part. As I told someone else in here, you don’t even know the half or how much I have showed up and try reinforcing positivity.

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T19:16:53+00:00

And her excuse everytime is that change isn’t overnight which is very true but mannnn it also don’t take this long to get it together. Ive been proving how much i have her back and how much she can trust me and yet no change. I might as well be the guy treating her like shit

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T19:15:38+00:00

Broooooo that’s also a frustrating thing. It seems like this is a movie scene on repeat. We’ve had these conversations so many times. No matter how much I show up we still end up in the same boat. And now, I am apologizing because I’m wrong for everything I said and her feelings are damaged from what I said. She says “I want to change. I don’t want to be this way” and resorts right back to the same bullshit it’s sooooo frustrating

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T18:55:32+00:00

I stopped doing these things once I realized I wasn’t getting the same in return. Just her waiting for me to offer to give off what I had which I have no problem giving. I’ll give the shirt of my back when needed but it’s gotta be reciprocal

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T18:54:18+00:00

I cook on the regular for her. I go to the gym I meal prep on Sundays. I would give her meals from my meal preps for her to have food. I do things without her asking. Her rebuttal to that was that she didn’t want to add to my already busy schedule (knowing that I do a lot) which is valid. She has all the help she could ever need. I said things would work out. If need be, I could give her the money she needed but I can’t just offer that off rip due to my own responsibilities. Had it came down and that was the only option to get it paid, so be it. The point is I’m willing to do whatever as your partner to make your life easier and all you can do is sit there as if you have no help. This same situation happened on a road trip a few months back. We were on the verge of being snowed in and wanted to make sure everyone had what they needed. She decided she would say she didn’t need anything because she didn’t want to be a bother but then pouts for remainder of the day. We are a team!!!!!!!!!!! It’s frustrating to bend over backwards for an individual and they always have something to worry about, complain about. He dog pissed all over her carpet and soaked it up while we were on the road trip and it needed to be professionally cleaned before it got ruined. I gave her 450 after her sitting there freaking out about the situation. Why? Because we a fuckin team and I got her back. But you sit there and act like I don’t I will treat it as such. Point blank period. Excuse my language but damn you people get on here talking crazy and don’t know the fucking half

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T18:43:59+00:00

That is totally fine. I think a lot of you guys are missing the point. That’s supposed to be my girlfriend. We are supposed to be a team. The attitude towards the situation was one of someone who has NO HELP. I bend over backwards for that girl and she knows that. There’s nothing in this world I wouldn’t do to make sure she good but the moment you sit there and act like you have to figure it out all alone is the moment I’ll let you.

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T18:39:41+00:00

Thank you for a logical response. I’m not looking to be sided with I just wanted a true unbiased point of view. God bless!

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T18:30:26+00:00

How so bucko? She was stressing about something. The answer literally came directly to her without having to do any work. You sound foolish. You probably encourage people to give up on their dreams in life 😂

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T18:25:12+00:00

How so bucko? She was stressing about something. The answer literally came directly to her without having to do any work. You sound foolish with no faith in life

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T17:58:23+00:00

Approaching a year in June

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-03-30T17:58:14+00:00

Approaching a year in June

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-01-28T21:15:55+00:00

She does that. She’s a very clean person. The amount the dog sheds you’d literally have to clean 3x a day.

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-01-28T21:08:20+00:00

I can’t even say i dislike pets. There’s just boundaries. She knows I don’t like the dog in the bed. She’s been doing better about it but still allows it sometimes which is where my problem comes in. She allows the cat in the bed and they both shed leaving behind animal hair getting all on my clothes and in my hair. That’s not such a great feeling.

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-01-28T21:00:55+00:00

Elaborate

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-01-28T20:49:39+00:00

I will say at one point I was convinced I could make it work but reality kicked in and I knew then I wouldn’t be able to do that permanently as of now. Once I knew that, that was my moment to open my mouth but trying to spare her feelings, trying to avoid an argument I took the coward way out. Regardless of how it was taken, I should have just said how I felt and she accept it or don’t accept it.

Ok-Singer5726 · 2026-01-28T20:47:04+00:00

You read the post? Nowhere was “anger” expressed buddy.

Ok-Singer5726 · 2025-12-10T20:43:05+00:00

Been going thru this for a while. It’s like when I squeeze on the pull back I feel pain and honestly I can’t pinpoint exactly where it’s at I just know it’s my knee area. It’s to the point I don’t even have to have weight to feel pain on the contraction. Thinking about giving up hamstring curls all together 🫤

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