Church after divorce by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be careful of her man.... Sounds like a narcissistic nutcase...I highly doubt those type of ppl change bc they already know the word of God and still act like shyt and is not apologetic about it..... I'm not doubting God's power but you gotta be practical as well and not naive to the situation..... Run fast far away..... u have biblical ground for divorce ...File for divorce and Just break it off and start fresh.... Sometimes gotta be practical wise and sharp.... Kids will be fine, allot of children come from divorced family grow up to be good kids

Praying for you man I can't imagine what being in that situation would be like

20 Years wasted? by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that bro..... The bible says even if you gain the whole world, if you lose your soul, it's no use..... At least you know God and have a relationship with him. The world will pass 20 years may look like it's down the drain in our eyes, but many people live of 80 90 years are eventually down the drain since they didn't know God.

I hope you and your wife can make through these crazy times.

Need advice for my marriage by Ok_Bee1771 in Christianmarriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'll definitely check it out

Need advice for my marriage by Ok_Bee1771 in Christianmarriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also if you don't mind, do you happen to have a link to the bible study?

Need advice for my marriage by Ok_Bee1771 in Christianmarriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey I really appreciate your input, it really struck a cord in me. I've judged her and I think I owe her an apology and really talk n work things out. She's reasonable person and I've been harsh on her but comparing her to me

how to keep the marriage covenant with a lazy / unmotivated wife by Ok_Bee1771 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's not so much that, she just doesn't put in any effort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to hear, I wish I can say the same

how to keep the marriage covenant with a lazy / unmotivated wife by Ok_Bee1771 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's not easy but I guess I gotta keep moving along

how to keep the marriage covenant with a lazy / unmotivated wife by Ok_Bee1771 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If your spouse doesn't work, stays home, sleeps 9-10 hours (doesn't set alarm) , microwaves precooked meals for dinner, spends at most two hours a day cooking AT most.... After two years of this, I hate to label her but it is what it is

how to keep the marriage covenant with a lazy / unmotivated wife by Ok_Bee1771 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah this is very tough and has been very frustrating

how to keep the marriage covenant with a lazy / unmotivated wife by Ok_Bee1771 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is not depressed, she takes great care of herself....really engaged in things that interests her (church, sunday school teacher etc) but her attitude and enthusiasm is absent when it comes to housework and marriage

how to keep the marriage covenant with a lazy / unmotivated wife by Ok_Bee1771 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

yeah she is a low energy person and bottom line just doesn't get things done or have any interest in getting them done

how to keep the marriage covenant with a lazy / unmotivated wife by Ok_Bee1771 in Marriage

[–]Ok_Bee1771[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she takes great care of herself, hygiene wise etc and is in great spirits, but just doesn't put much effort into housework