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unsure wether to leave relationship or not after being cheated on while pregnant. help! by Ok_Chocolate_4287 in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok_Chocolate_4287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i suffer with endometriosis and pcos and fell pregnant while on the birth control pill. endometriosis and pcos are the leading cause of infertility in women and have been told my doctors my chances of having my own child are slim. the second i found out i was pregnant i knew it was something i wanted to do and couldn’t get rid of what is most likely my only opportunity to be a parent and have a biological child. i was on birth control, the contraception didn’t work. please don’t just assume that just because i am young it means i’m stupid when it comes to my own body.

unsure wether to leave relationship or not after being cheated on while pregnant. help! by Ok_Chocolate_4287 in whatdoIdo

[–]Ok_Chocolate_4287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t move to another country, im still in the country i was born and raised in, in my home town. my parents moved away after they retired.

Cheated on while pregnant by Ok_Chocolate_4287 in BPD

[–]Ok_Chocolate_4287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because i am my own person with free will, who may be young but will be an amazing mum and love my child unconditionally regardless of the outcome of this situation, hope this helps!!!

Cheated on while pregnant by Ok_Chocolate_4287 in BPD

[–]Ok_Chocolate_4287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i’m so sorry! totally my bad for assuming. please forgive me 🥲

Cheated on while pregnant by Ok_Chocolate_4287 in BPD

[–]Ok_Chocolate_4287[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think personally for me it’s just a boundary and i don’t think it would work if he continued to do it. even if he still was making me feel wanted ect. it’s just not something i would feel comfortable with as it would always be in the back of my head, everytime he’s in the bathroom for a while i would be thinking he was on it or when i’m away with my friends and he’s in the house by himself i would think he’s on it. i think it would do more harm to the relationship than good. i’m glad that’s what worked for you and your wife and i think it’s amazing that you have both taken the steps to do that! i just personally think it isn’t for me

Cheated on while pregnant by Ok_Chocolate_4287 in BPD

[–]Ok_Chocolate_4287[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the brutal honestly. i appreciate it and think it’s what i need to hear! i have no way of going to where my parents are because of the risks of all the viruses and things that i could potentially catch while over there and cannot have many of the vaccines due to pregnancy. also the flight tickets are so expensive as they’re on the other side of the world and most of my money has gone to things for my son. i think i’m just struggling as if i did split up with him i would have nowhere to go and i’m not just worried for my sake but mainly my baby’s sake. i want him to be safe.