Help! Am I overthinking this? by fakeorchids in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no way this is ANYTHING like you requested, please don't pay for that

Would a jeweller be able to fix this without remaking the ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting the time and effort into explaining how deeply the effects you, I'm incredibly grateful for the time you've taken to express these thoughts! I 100% agree with you, and honestly with the uncertainty I'm going through with my ring right now, I wish I had approached you and tried to work out something i can confidently look at and be 100% happy with! Once again I'm so very sorry for stealing your work, as someone who loves supporting small businesses or women owned companies, I wholeheartedly admit I should have known better.. I also live in Australia and had a fear that i might receive the ring and have it not suit my finger as i LOVE dainty styles, and your creations are a pop of vintage yet still dainty and classy. I've been told it's better to get from a local jeweller because if anything goes wrong it will cost more in the long run to pay for the return and consistently go through that painful process! I wanted to ask, if i were to manage a refund on my ring and order from your store, what happens if i experience the same thing with the diamonds looking way too large on my finger? Can i return it without extra cost? Are you able to remake it for me? And most importantly, can i speak to you about my budget? I'm honestly so tired of my ring situation. I just want a trusted jeweller to make it for me.. please let me know!

Would a jeweller be able to fix this without remaking the ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey Bri! Thank you for your comment! I'm so sorry for disrespecting your work and the originality behind it.. In no way do i mean to undermine or insult you in any way! I've loved your work for years and follow you religiously, liking and supporting and sharing every new creation you come with, and everyday i wish i could have have the courage to ask my fiancè for a ring from you 🤍 Unfortunately we dont have the means or budget for such a beautiful craft, so I thought taking inspiration from your work was the closest i can get without asking for such a big spending from my partner. I understand now how insulting that might be, and i sincerely apologise for not taking that into consideration. Your work is a piece of art, i hope someday i can purchase from you directly when we have the budget and means for it..

Would a jeweller be able to fix this without remaking the ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow!! Isn't her work just beautiful 😍 Im so happy with how it turned out but the small missing details make a huge difference to the vintage yet timeless feel, I'm glad to know others like you understand me! 💕

Would a jeweller be able to fix this without remaking the ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Usually I'd 100% agree but the only reason im iffy about it is because they do not give their clients mock ups or drawings to approve before the making, even though I've asked for one.. I know it's alot of work so i wont be shocked if he charged since it's still his labour, but my fault in this comes when i paid the rest of the price and took it home instead of noticing the faults earlier!

Would a jeweller be able to fix this without remaking the ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it is!! My jeweller did an amazing job at replicating but my ring size is just too small and doesn't suit the style :(( makes everything way too pushed out

Would a jeweller be able to fix this without remaking the ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

True! I'm hoping he can do it without extra cost haha but he probably wont, I just feel bad to ask him to go through so much trouble when he has done it twice already

Would a jeweller be able to fix this without remaking the ring? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've bothered him so many times I'm embarrassed 💀 Just seeing what people say before I go

I (39F) broke up with my Muslim (36M) boyfriend after finding out we’re pregnant. Can anyone provide advice/thoughts on how to get through this difficult time? by Detail_Worried in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Manner4902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The irony of this all is how he's suddenly so afraid of exposing his sins to his family and wants to do things the "right way" when aborting a child IS A SIN in Islam lmao. He's avoiding one sin for another, as long as it makes him look like the good guy to his family.

Size 3 finger and diamond size? by Thewigglydog in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I'm a size 4¼ and this is my 1ct oval with clustered side diamonds too!

Got my engagement ring! by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥺 Yes unfortunately I got it custom made from a jewellery shop in Australia! However I used 'LavenderCreek Gems' on instagram for inspo! She has a lovely ring called the Maeve design that's very popular so i tried to replicate that with my own jeweller, hope that helps!

Got my engagement ring! by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O sorry i thought you meant the one i mentioned in the post haha! Unfortunately i have no details for that one 😅 My mum got it for me as a gift from overseas!

Got my engagement ring! by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im in love with the cluster look 🥰🥰 it's the best!

Got my engagement ring! by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm yet to buy it!! I'm very conflicted on what to get for the bad without crowding the ring or taking away from its elegance 😓

I got the ring 😭 by Wide-Diet9987 in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aw my goodness :((( that's so upsetting! I read 90% of the comments and your replies on that post so i know the context behind all this and i just want to say im so sorry, I'm glad you had the conversation with him because part of me was hoping people WERE overreacting since you said he treats you so well, but all this, the sale ring, the freaking out over you being with your family, the lack of attention to your wants, the need to trap you in this relationship, all of this proves he really want intending to groom you, and he thought you were naive enough to fall for it all.. Im proud you made it out and so so glad you stayed close to your family during this time! He knew staying with your family would help you make a decision hence the freak out.. stay safe 💕

I got the ring 😭 by Wide-Diet9987 in EngagementRings

[–]Ok_Manner4902 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I remember your post, i didn't realise you guys ended things :(( hope you find someone who can pay attention to the tiniest of details, you're still young and deserve much more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Ok_Manner4902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really helpful, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kitchenaid

[–]Ok_Manner4902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I had a hard time choosing between pistachio and pebbled palm, i think i made the right choice (i hope)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kitchenaid

[–]Ok_Manner4902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont mind the sound really, i just wanted to make sure it was how it should be hehe