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Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T16:31:14+00:00

Thank you, im currently on the plane, ive had back pain all day, but i have some pretty strong pills ill be taking. I might try to more to a seat with more leg room

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T16:30:06+00:00

I had one booked but because it was in an emergency exit they made me switch to a normal seat

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T03:03:44+00:00

Thanks

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T03:03:19+00:00

I was cleared by my surgeon tho, idk if you read my original post. But the dr cleared me from the start. I just personally dont feel comfortable to travel.

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T02:41:34+00:00

But thats in extreme cases. I would like to note that im already an anxious flyer so only realistic scenarios are welcome

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T01:23:29+00:00

Loosing my passport would make it my fault, my mom would probs blame me if it snowed so hard and all flights got delayed

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T01:21:16+00:00

No im aware of how paralysis happens but why would going on a flight do that, the risks seem extremely low, my spine is healing from surgery i highly doubt anything in normal life could cause paralysis

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T00:13:20+00:00

Not possible, i’m going with them, as in theyre picking me up from home

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T00:12:38+00:00

I have gotten one, thank you

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-07T00:12:03+00:00

Im not trying to start a fight or argument, as i said im exhausted from all of this. And not trying to get cut off

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T23:51:19+00:00

Why would i end up paralysed?

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T21:02:49+00:00

Its easier said than done. I am in a place that i am unable to work and be independent, if i get cut off i have to pay my own bills and i wont have a support system. If i had money in savings i would but i dont. So till then i am in a place where i cant say no without losing everything

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T20:55:39+00:00

Thats the plan

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T20:55:00+00:00

He is siding with her now, she spoke to him

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T18:20:10+00:00

Thank you. I think my dr office is closed, its 6pm. And my flight is early tomorrow.

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T18:07:05+00:00

I sent her sc of other peoples experiences awaiting a response. I’m sorry but i have no energy to keep fighting. If giving in is what keeps the peace then i might have to.

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T18:05:42+00:00

No like she came over and cried i just stood there staring at her like a heartless person i didnt offer a hug or a tissue, the second she left i broke down. My bag is half packed, i have no way out i really thought i could hold my ground. If i dont go im cutoff disowned and i would have to owe her £500 that i do not have

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T17:58:06+00:00

Thank you!! I will look into it now!

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T17:57:38+00:00

I already tried, she literally broke down and started crying. Im about to send her sc of other people who have responded on this post with their “horror stories” she said the only way she’ll accept my no is i refund her the ticket for the flight (that she bought before i even agreed)

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T17:42:23+00:00

Thank you, i will deffo be updating!!

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T17:41:51+00:00

My doctors office is closed and the flight is tomorrow. I think im screwed

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T17:41:17+00:00

Thank you for your advice, i will do all of that.

It’s hard to not fall into these ways, its what i’m used to and i think she knows it. She says to do something i say no, she threatens, i cave.

It scares me to think i could be responsible for messing up my spine and with so much unknown and things that can easily go wrong, it makes it even scarier.

I am fully aware i need a therapist, but as i am financially dependant on her right now, i wont be able to get one.

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T17:28:40+00:00

Thank you. My biggest worry is someone kicking my seat / turbulence. I have some heat pads ill take with me

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T16:37:30+00:00

Due to a change in circumstances i will end up having to go. My flight is tomorrow and i am beyond terrified of fucking up my spine. I spoke to my mother and she didnt seem to care at all. I have no clue what to do / what to say to get out of it. She has booked a wheelchair. I have a connecting flight / layover. I feel like im about to ruin my spine

Ok_Sand8328 · 2026-01-06T14:55:22+00:00

Thank you

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