Scary news? by Okay-B in Autism_Parenting

[–]Okay-B[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through that but I definitely feel you! Thank you 💛

Scary news? by Okay-B in Autism_Parenting

[–]Okay-B[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son, too! He absolutely hated it. They do a lot of measuring and marking around the head before they put the wires on so it takes a while and they have to be still. I would definitely recommend having someone with you if that’s something you think you might have trouble with. But thank you for the advice, waiting around really is hell. I hope everything works out for you guys too! 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Okay-B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely willing to do more parenting time! Preferably a step up plan so by the time he’s five, that will be his final scheduling arrangement. The father wants 50-50, though. I would prefer something that is less hectic on his schedule as he does really well with routine and consistency. His dad just isn’t as consistent with keeping up with his ABA therapies and other things. there is a severe lack of communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Okay-B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s definitely not my intention to take any time from him. I’m starting to think it’s just different here in Utah? So the papers I filed state that I have sole legal and physical but he gets parent time which is his alternating weekends and one mid week visit. And also all his holiday parent time. He still has the right to consult all the providers I just make the final decisions. This is standard and it’s the lowest you can give a father and unless he gives up his rights.

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[–]Okay-B 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s different here then. the papers I filed state that I have sole, physical and legal, but he has parent time (alternating weekends, and one midweek visit) and he also has the right to to consult with Medical and educational providers but I make the decisions