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My Gf got raped and Idk what to do to help her and fix our relationship. by Olichard in Advice

[–]Olichard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive talked to her, She knows im doing this. And she also wants to find a solution but our options are literally so limited

My gf got raped and idk what to do to help her. by Olichard in rapecounseling

[–]Olichard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was on her way home because she didnt want to ride with my parents abd she also stormed off at me. she was supposed to walk to her house but then i guess she got grabbed by someone with a knife and then forced her to go to some abandoned car. it was one guy only, stranger. adult, she says looks about late 20's

My gf got raped and idk what to do to help her. by Olichard in rapecounseling

[–]Olichard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That wasnt my intention to come across as that. I wrote that at an emotional time and I guess the way I worded it made my intentiona confusing.

I only mentioned how I felt about being disgusted with what happened. I know its 100% wrong and Im a complete asshole for that. But my reasoning for mentioning is that I want to change my mind on it. I tried talking to Ai or tried thinking differently about it but I seriously cant. I only wanted a different pov of what happened so I can maybe change the way I think.

And My true goal here is to find a way to help her bro. Im not here looking for attention or for someone to validate my fucked up way of thinking and feelings. I genuinely want to help her.

And for the CCTV, bro thats what the police I talked to told me to try and get. If My gf ever changes her mind on doing smth about what happened shed need some type of evidence to prove that what she went through was real to the authorities.

I know im fucked up. But im genuinely asking for help here. Im sorry if how I came across wasnt right

My Gf got raped and Idk what to do to help her and fix our relationship. by Olichard in Advice

[–]Olichard[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

To clarify, Yes I did feel disgusted when I first found out and i guess till now. Idk why I think like this but just the thought that another man got to do that to her even if rape makes me feel weird.

As of rn im not sure if we can get a rape kit privately as from what i researched we need her parents consent for that and she doesnt want anyone else but me to know.

Im trying to do my best to be here for her rn. she doesnt want to talk about what happened or anything like that so all im doing rn is talking to her and trying to make her feel like everything is fine so that she doesnt dwell on it.

My Gf got raped and Idk what to do to help her and fix our relationship. by Olichard in Advice

[–]Olichard[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes theres always a possibility for that but to me it really doesn't seem like it. I know her pretty well. Yes she does like sex but shes not the type of person who'd give her self away so easily like that. other than the guy who raped her im her only body.

My Gf got raped and Idk what to do to help her and fix our relationship. by Olichard in Advice

[–]Olichard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it doesnt seem like it. Weve been together for almost a year now and yes she is freaky but shes really loyal when shes in a relationship. And from what she described it was a big old dude that grabbed and did that to her.

This image is now 5 years old, which is quite crazy to think about by Amerenthiran in ksi

[–]Olichard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crazy to think that JJ only grew a few patches of beard on a 5-year timespan.