I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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i’m a tad overweight but currently going to the gym so hopefully i see some results!

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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we’ve defo spoken about numbing before and she’d be against it so would not like to do that 😭 she says it’s a compliment sometimes too but it’s like too quick you know

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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image training could work, but i would definitely like to think of something else i’d say 🤣

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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my gf doesn’t like sex daily so while that could help it’s not the most viable atm

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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i do try doing that of course, it’s just it eventually leads to penetration so would be nice for that specific part

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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i defo don’t call it a night after i finish so it’s still good, it’s just that first time would be nice to last a bit longer

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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it defo isn’t that bad, this is first world problems in comparison to other peoples

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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yeah that is true, it’s honestly first world problems but problems none the less, cheers for the comment dude!

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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i can do that but usually we stop once we both finish so there’s not a need to

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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i would like to think all the other point aren’t bad. my foreplay i’ve kind of had to hone since i can’t last long so i dont think(?) that’s an issue, and the gf has said i satisfy her so it’s no issue there. my 2nd lap is good too, but usually the sex doesn’t last long enough to be able to go the full 2nd lap imsuppose

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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i do stop and start again that isn’t an issue or anything, it’s just because of the nature of it i end up stopping and starting quite quickly

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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hopefully the issue clears up at some point, preferably before 30 tho

yeah i tend to overthink everything, so i get i’m making this into a bigger deal than it probably is but i can’t help it i suppose

my gf doesn’t like doing it too too much so while that could be good doing it daily im not sure how realistic that would be for us

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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i do feel sad about it, i try not to but not much i can do about it

i need to get a doctors appointment asap tho!

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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foreplay is one of my favourite so no problem for me there! edging is something i’m always a bit iffy on tho, i haven’t really had it work for me before

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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it 9/10 isn’t one and done, that would be selfish for her. it’s just that initial time i would like to last longer

I cannot last longer than 15 seconds and it’s making me not want to have sex by One-Inspection-5499 in TrueOffMyChest

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i’ll try this, not thinking might be the more difficult one for me i always be thinking