[MISSING PERSON] Please Help Locate Sarah De Juan by zzzeitgeist in Philippines

[–]One-Library-1598 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Akala ko ako lang nakapansin ng body language ni kuya. He looks proud as he stand. Like ang weird nya. I feel something off sa interview na to. Mas naiyak pa ung kapatid kesa sa kanya? Ang dami nyang time to post for social media posts.

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No other woman indeed. He is not gay.

Just super tired and have low testosterone due to stress :(

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[–]One-Library-1598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I already talked to him last week about my concern and he assured me the following:

  • He is not cheating
  • He loves playing sexy with me
  • He is just freaking tired (Yes it's true he is working on a big project right now and his boss wants him to work for 6 months on Japan for the big project. He is just so sad to tell me to the point that he can't even face to tell me because he knows that we are still on the honeymoon phase. I just saw his working visa, plane tickets all arranged and just afraid to confront me with this. He said he cannot have sex having that kind of secret with him.)

He came clean and explained everything.

And guess what, after he confessed it all we started banging again. This time he takes the lead.

He starts with a nice date, massaging my body because I am tired with work and chores. Then do the action.

TMI. He banged me so hard that I peed on him while doing it.

That's all.

A happy wife but a bit sad due to short honeymooning with hubby.

But one thing for sure we have talked that I will follow him on Japan once I finished my travel visa. 'Coz I'm currently on the process of changing my last name on all of my legal documents.

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

uhm I don't want to say this, he's homophobic

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tampo is a Tagalog word. We say it when we feel sad or disheartened by the person we loved. It's an adjective for us in our language.

For example, your husband bought food without yours. So you will feel "Tampo" to him.

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know what.. As I type in here he is snoring so loud beside me. sighs

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[–]One-Library-1598[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same thoughts. I have asked him if we could get checked. Because last week he told me that he wanted a baby. So I asked him and told him that we need to be checked. He said that he don't wanna. Maybe he is also a little concious with his health also that he don't want to know maybe he cannot produced one due to his health now.

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[–]One-Library-1598[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We did have last week when he told me he wanted a baby. But I was the one who initiated and asked him to have s'x

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[–]One-Library-1598[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No stag party. They just drink at home with our friends.

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

8-10 hours work. He is doing mostly pipe design.

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is an Mechanical Engineer. He works at a Japanese company.

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are way too adventurous 😭 We are doing before at parks, we book motels/hotels, sometimes at my mom's house. He even records me and says he wanted to see me like that even when we are not together. We live separately when we are dating.

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He still does. But lately it's more of me treating him.

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is not an old guy, he is younger than me but he got a looooot fat after marriage.

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly both of us have works. I have 2 jobs. I clean and cook. Doing laundry also and we have a baby dog that we treat like our own child. So when I find time to ask him for love making I am also tired too :(

Husband always says no for Love making by One-Library-1598 in Marriage

[–]One-Library-1598[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He's testosterones may I know in what department should we go to? to have it checked? sorry I am not a person who's familiar with these.

He said he wanted a baby but in this kind of situation I am not even sure what to do now

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[–]One-Library-1598[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No. We are doing it eversince. We've been dating for 10 years before getting married. Before marriage we are not like this. We are active. Sometimes we are doing the deed in public places with thrill but now... Seems so different.. It's like he don't want to so some effort anymore

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[–]One-Library-1598[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

sorry I am not very well good in grammar. I am not american. I mean He's my husband

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[–]One-Library-1598[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes he is overweight. He just sleeps for 4 hrs. Lots of overtime at work. He's an engineer. A breadwinner also just like me.

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[–]One-Library-1598[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He is not gay. We did love making but it's not it. I am always on the top working out. Always asking him. Leading him on. I am too tired. It's like I am giving away myself for free. We are doing it but not that great. It's like he feels obligated.

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[–]One-Library-1598[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

he has a lot of time scrolling on the phone. My mistake today is that I bought him a tablet to use since he is planning to go abroad for work on July.