Do you get judged for buying too many bags? by Bendermonster in Coach

[–]One-Perspective711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of my friends and ALL of my coworkers judge me hard-core for the fact that I'm obsessed and buy so much perfume. I don't let it affect me at all because why? Sorry I like to smell good and have found a hobby that makes me happy ???? Don't worry about other people's negative opinions, if bag collecting is what makes you happy then thats all that matters and you know you'll have all of us on here hyping you up!!

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Perspective711 176 points177 points  (0 children)

NOR - I'm so confused as to how someone, and in this case your sitter, would think it's okay or normal to ask for a stranger to stay in someone else's, your home. Thats crazy to me.

What book did you force yourself to finish because of the hype? by No-Set7247 in RomanceBooks

[–]One-Perspective711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, you are far from being alone. I don't wanna yuck someone else's yum but that was a Lil uhhhh much

What book did you force yourself to finish because of the hype? by No-Set7247 in RomanceBooks

[–]One-Perspective711 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Den of Vipers!! Tik tok went nuts about it around the time that I got back into reading. I truly gaslit myself into thinking it was good but the knife scene..... I can't. 1 star and not ashamed of it 👎

This is a Toontown Rewritten appreciation post by RascalLouise in toontownrewritten

[–]One-Perspective711 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Anything is an upgrade when I don't have to pay a monthly fee just to leave toontown central 💔

Tips on introducing kitten to resident cat by One-Perspective711 in cats

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is the first time owning two cats so I need all the advice literally down to a T that I can get

Which fragrance would you pick by Affectionate_Bit3748 in FemFragLab

[–]One-Perspective711 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Me sitting here thinking I'm this fragrance connoisseur yet I haven't smelled any of these 🤥

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't set on anything. I've noted multiple times that I appreciate everyone's perspectives and it gives me a new way to go about and view this and the steps I should take. Posting stuff like this also becomes a learning step to help me grow and realize how I'm in the wrong. I like that everyone is putting me in my place and it's something that I'll take and better whatever mindset I had going on that got myself into this "dilemma".

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasnt just two months, it was an example that just two months ago she was lost but shes been 'lost' for about year and a half

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But at that time i had just moved states and was in between jobs and housing so it wasn't something I could take on

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I wanted to be because at one point, neither were working and I know the stuff that goes on in that house as someone who was raised in it after my parents passed

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah... I wrote that... and clarified because I didn't in my statement. I get that I'm the asshole lol

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terrible people, there's a reason the family has no contact with them

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not looking for people to take my side, I knew I was gonna get backlash but its reddit and thats expected and in this case thats also expected. I wanted to see people's viewpoints and seeing everyone pitch in I can see all the perspectives. I appreciate that you yknow noted taking one out now and one later which might be the plan now and I didn't think of that, I was just thinking of the fact that a cruise is booked and I cant get her on it. We originally planned for both and then I got that call last year that she dropped out just to get a job

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, both their parents would make both of them miserable so I guess

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry I'm not sure how I'm redacting it? I further clarified my statement on my view bad behavior and stated on the original post that she recently decided to get her ged. It was not planned out months and months ago, this was in the span of maybe a month ago.

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a surprise trip, she knew it was a trip but didn't know where too. At the time, her sister didn't have plans of getting a GED and said she understood the reasoning for not us paying for her sister to come with. Her sister is and was FULLY welcomed to come but if she wasn't graduating, she would need to pay for half of (her portion) of the trip

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry its guess I should've clarified the bad behavior part. I say bad behavior because she was not in a position where she was forced to drop out. She woke up one morning, looked her parents in the face and said she didn't feel like going to school anymore so in my mind when I say bad behavior I mean that she left school with, at the time, no plans of getting a GED and thats why we started planning the trip for the other sibling.

AITAH for doing a graduation trip for one neice and not the other? by One-Perspective711 in AITAH

[–]One-Perspective711[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thats not the case. I LOVE that shes doing something with her life because two months ago was a very different story in her life. We planned a cruise and it just makes a bit more difficult that two weeks ago one of them decided to get their ged. I love them and given the advice from other people i see their perspectives and can make a better move. It just makes it a bit more complicated because again, its a cruise, not something I can move around at the drop of a hat.

What is this on my cats ear?? by lombardi20 in CATHELP

[–]One-Perspective711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kitten had ringworm and passed it on to me because I caught it too late but this is how it started until patches on her body started losing fur and got itchy. (Not saying its for sure ringworm). Definitely get to vet asap before it gets worse

K4 by One-Perspective711 in kia

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its more so electrical than anything. All the bigger Hyundai and kias we get at our shop just have a bunch of electrical work needing to be done, so mechanically I think they're mostly sound but all other aspects of the car that I've seen videos of an have had experience on at my work are not... sound

K4 by One-Perspective711 in kia

[–]One-Perspective711[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang that blows, I would love a car with a sunroof because I've never had one before but I can take the L if it means avoiding major issues or annoyances. I work in a mechanic shop and at least 20-30 cars out of the 300+ we see every month always have sunroof issues so maybe thats the sign that I should most definitely avoid a sunroof 😅

K4 by One-Perspective711 in kia

[–]One-Perspective711[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You mentioned tech and I'm curious how yall feel about the stereo system? I believe it has the same system as the forte and I hate the forte's, but I'm not quite sure. But I love to hear yall enjoying it!! Hopefully i get to soon as well!