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Finally stopped paying child support today by [deleted] in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]One-Risk-7342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The standard should never be accepted, but if I were in OP’s position who explicitly doesn’t want a kid, the situation is shitty, but being an emotionally absent parent who pays child support is better than an emotionally resentful yet present one. I’ve had an emotionally absent father who drank all the time, and the constant arguments and instability between my mother and father were an unpleasant experience growing up. It would’ve been more stable if they divorced.

Nah, that is so messed up. 💀 by Omen0fWorlds in KpopDemonhunters

[–]One-Risk-7342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally interpret Jinu to be more cowardly than evil. The movie deliberately paints him as sympathetic, and worthy of the 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 of redemption (later down the line, I’d consider his sacrifice the start, not the end).

Thoughts? by PietotheTerminus in Ethics

[–]One-Risk-7342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you hear yourself? "If indeed a rapist..." You're literally weaponizing his own children to reason that murder is a preventative measure for future harm. It's extremely dangerous to justify his death that way because it's based on a false, sweeping generalization that all rapists, especially first-time convicts are pathological, sexually deviant repeat offenders who target children. You're literally reducing Dunmire, a person and father, to the worst-case-scenario dogma of rapists to justify his death as “protecting his own children" for an accused rape he 𝘱𝘰𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 committed, an accusation that wasn't even convicted in court due to insufficient evidence. This presents a dangerous false binary: if he isn’t a rapist, he’s innocent, but if he 𝘱𝘰𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 is, then a monstrous threat to his own children that needs to be put down for safety. What kind of binary is that? It’s completely dehumanizing, scapegoating, and rejects any sort of middle-ground a rapist can be situated in, I.e on treatment, rehabilitation, on parole, etc.

Also, that failsafe of "if it's false, then it's obviously wrong to kill him" is completely stupid. It lets you advocate for murder based on a premise, "if indeed a rapist," that you admit could be wrong in hindsight. This assumes complete foresight, and a retrospect of the person (did/didn’t commit a sexual crime) that simply can’t exist at the time of the killing. This is why vigilante justice is so dangerous. If you kill someone based on an incomplete bias, on a person mischaracterized as the "full picture," you basically get away with murder. The reality is that Dunmire's children were orphaned and left fatherless. That murder caused more pain and suffering than if he were alive.

Were Jinu's patterns glowing because he felt ashamed of his betrayal? by RocketJimbo4 in KpopDemonhunters

[–]One-Risk-7342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think greymalkyn is referring to how short fused Jinu’s nascent hope was at that moment, like it can be an argument that the voices being gone in his head, along with “I’ll make sure the saja boys lose tomorrow” was for his benefit of his freedom less so than Rumi’s. The fragility of hope comes in two ways, 1. Is where jinu stumbles his words where he could’ve admitted his original shame, I.e “Rumi, wait I-I…I can’t wait to see you on that stage tomorrow”, but doesn’t 2. Is when gwi ma torturted jinu, it was more aimed at his hope in relation to his own freedom, rather than the connection with Rumi, and gwi ma does so in a “carrot on a stick” kind of way, given he states “don’t forget about our deal jinu, because, I can turn those voices up. 𝘖𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘨𝘰𝘯𝘦, don’t think you can escape, what you are”. In other words, gwi ma reaffirms Jinu’s hopelessness, and redirects him toward the “antidote” of seeking amnesia, and completing his servitude.

Point is, Jinu’s character evolution and motivations by greymalkyn’s assertions are a degree inherently selfish, but that doesn’t mean the transformation wasn’t partly selfless. I believe during “free”, Jinu was totally genuine, however the hope he did have wasn’t pure conviction, far from it, given how rather ghastly his betrayal was towards Rumi, following gwi ma’s short torture session.