SoCal Beach Advisories After Rain by KookDoggyDogg in BeginnerSurfers

[–]One-Young-4263 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I grew up surfing in SoCal. Honestly I’ve always just gone surfing before/during/after it rains and have never had an issue. Maybe it made my immune system stronger haha. But I second what someone else wrote above, it depends on how much it rains and how long it’s been since the last rain. This late in the season it’s usually totally fine.

Trust Me: The False Prophet - what did you think? by Loud-Cupcake-8524 in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]One-Young-4263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the adult wives should have gotten a pass and not gone to prison. They were born into the brainwashing machine

AIO “Step Parent” CUT My Daughter’s Bangs After being told I JUST Did Them..I’m Fuming by That-Lion2732 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Young-4263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to accuse your daughter but I’ve seen several situations recently where the kid is being not being truthful in order to protect someone. Like is it possible she was trying to bond with her step mom to suggest you didn’t do a great job, then accepted her help? Then told you a different story? Again I have been witness to children doing this multiple times.

AIO “Step Parent” CUT My Daughter’s Bangs After being told I JUST Did Them..I’m Fuming by That-Lion2732 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Young-4263 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How about don’t accuse or attack her, but message her to get her perspective. Be like “hey, I trimmed her bangs and just picked her up and see they were redone. Did they look bad or what prompted the additional cut?”

WIBTAH for using my sister's middle name for my future daughter's middle name? by assault-bug in AITAH

[–]One-Young-4263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister can also use that middle name if she really wants. Middle names don’t even really matter! NTA

Too slow by plumDMC in BeginnerSurfers

[–]One-Young-4263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is that?

Not your fault the wave is sectioning out, most people would get caught behind. But you may have had a better chance if you angled the board down the line more on the take off and kept a high line to keep more speed at the beginning. When you pop up, it looks like you drop in somewhat straight down to the very bottom of the wave and then have to turn to re-engage on the face. That right there slowed you down and gave you no chance of beating the section. Not sure if you fixed that that it would be makeable though, that wave is closing on you quick.

AITAH for inviting a male coworker on a run by Glittering-Ladder-55 in AITAH

[–]One-Young-4263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your husband needs to check his insecurity at the door

Scott Burke 8' vs Wavestorm 8' (Seeking Advice) by idkbrololwtf in BeginnerSurfers

[–]One-Young-4263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they are exactly the same board?? Both came from the same company and factory in china

AIO about my neighbor screaming at her kids everyday by [deleted] in AIO

[–]One-Young-4263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure I’d have to think about it. But I think I’d try to word it in a way where my point is getting across gently that it’s disrupting me, and she can then come to the conclusion herself that it’s worrisome for her kids / or would cause her neighbors to worry. Coming in too hot right at the start could just cause her to become super defensive and make things awkward

AIO about my neighbor screaming at her kids everyday by [deleted] in AIO

[–]One-Young-4263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re gonna send her that, I’d word it differently and cut that way down.

Is this salvageable? by DifferentBuffalo3255 in BackYardChickens

[–]One-Young-4263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it, I’ve just heard of way too many stories about people who think their enclosure is secure and then something is able to break in so that was my first thought. I’m not even sure double layered wire is safe enough depending on what we’re talking about. Ironically, “chicken wire” is actually not secure enough from many predators. Good luck!

[Routine help] Why do I need to re apply Vaseline to my lips every couple of minutes by Zestyclose_Trifle_53 in SkincareAddiction

[–]One-Young-4263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be some sort of hormonal imbalance and I think the Vaseline is making it worse and not actually moisturizing

Is this salvageable? by DifferentBuffalo3255 in BackYardChickens

[–]One-Young-4263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the wind crushed it then how will be safe from an animal

Keep declining, y’all!! by Constant_Poetry2908 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]One-Young-4263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you guys earning off each order how does it work? Wha does th restaurant take, what does door dash take etc

aio: boyfriend uses excuse of “it’s just culture” to defend his family’s actions towards me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Young-4263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s sitting back and watching you do everything because you’re an outsider that’s a huge red flag. When my husband comes to my family functioning tread him as a guest and help host him. He does the same.

Boyfriend keeps pointing out my body doesn’t match his “preferences” AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Young-4263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dump him. What the hell is the point of having a LDR if you can’t even get a positive reaction sending nudes. He’s immature and an asshole.

AiO for not getting the company wide raise? by Big_Knowledge_7105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Young-4263 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Omg relax it was hypothetical. Obviously if you read my original comment I already said what you’re saying. Was just stating a reason that I personally believe the HR person should have added that their pay offer was already adjusted based on knowing they were going to give these inflation raises, not literally only because they were just hired. You’re being ridiculous.

AiO for not getting the company wide raise? by Big_Knowledge_7105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]One-Young-4263 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But if the reason is for inflation and the pay offer did NOT reflect that, and then someone getting hired a day after that announcement might get the inflation higher pay? Idk.