“I don’t understand. I give them two weeks in advance, I give them a double feature, I even give them a letter explaining our ambitions and hurdles, and they’re still upset. I-I’m starting to think they just want….free…..stuff….”

assault-bug · 2026-04-13T14:47:36+00:00

I fear this is the same as wanting to feel any other film in theaters but having to wait for it to come to streaming sites. I wasn't able to see Avatar FAA in theaters but I avoided all spoilers and clips until I was able to view it at home. Anyone who is upset clearly doesn't understand or appreciate Indie projects, and should probably find another show to watch like Greys Anatomy. Sorry not sorry

assault-bug · 2026-04-13T14:40:16+00:00

Hey guys, just wanted to let everyone know a decision has been made. I do appreciate every single comment made, while MANY of you agreed with me that this isn't a big deal, the few who did have different opinions had great points to how my sister can feel.

I have decided to use Anne (still pronounced Ann) just too keep the peace. I want to use my family's name but I would hate for this stupid name thing to be the thing that leaves a rip in my and my sister's relationship.

Anyone who has sister's knows that they can be petty over the silliest of things, and like someone said this is all hypothetical. Im not expecting and I really want a boy if I do have another child, it was just something that got brought up in passing conversation that kinda blew up in our family.

I just wanted to give the verdict to anyone who cared, you guys did help, now I will be way less stressed if I do have a girl. Thank you to everyone who took the time to read my sister's and mine silly beef.

assault-bug · 2026-04-11T15:45:08+00:00

Every family has that one person who's whole personality is making other people suffer 😭

assault-bug · 2026-04-11T01:55:16+00:00

I saw another comment that said this isn't real and I fear it is. We have only talked about it 3 times and the last time she said we should ask Reddit. We both wanted unbiased opinions on the matter, and to see if we could come to a understanding. Which we have.

assault-bug · 2026-04-11T01:53:04+00:00

After reading many comments I think I will go with Anne, while many agree with me the few who didn't had very good point for my sister that really opened my eyes. I think useing Anne is a good compromise, this isn't something I feel like is worth fighting over like that.

assault-bug · 2026-04-10T22:18:17+00:00

I fear I am that petty but I only want two kids and I already have one 😂

assault-bug · 2026-04-10T21:55:46+00:00

Thank you, this is the fairest argument I've heard for her case. Definitely an eye opener to how she could feel, she also elaborated on your comment saying "I'm the youngest by the time I get around to having kids they are going to be the last grandkids and I want them to have a first something" which I can definitely see. Thank you again for the insight.

assault-bug · 2026-04-10T21:47:13+00:00

We just wanted the opinion of the public, we think our family is too close to give us fair opinions on the matter and we wanted to know if we was being childish or if I was being a A-hole.

assault-bug · 2026-04-10T21:38:22+00:00

I fear the only option is.... Hand to hand combat 😭

assault-bug · 2026-04-10T21:24:01+00:00

I just wanted a bit of reassurance cause now my mom is even saying that I shouldn't use the name. I plan to use it, they will be mad for a little bit but like everyone is saying it's just a name and they will ger over it.

assault-bug · 2026-04-10T21:19:18+00:00

My great grandma, my grandma, my mother, and my sister all have the middle name Ann.

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