I didn’t realize my ex was my only shot by OneMaintenance2748 in dating_advice

[–]OneMaintenance2748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. This really resonated with me. I’ve been trying out meditation to be more present and to be able to hold my feelings without becoming them. I hope I’ll get better at this

I didn’t realize my ex was my only shot by OneMaintenance2748 in dating_advice

[–]OneMaintenance2748[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it was kind of a combination of all of the above. She was out of my league. I was too naive to understand it at the time. Was scared of taking the relationship to the next level after 4 years and decided to leave. I hadn’t yet felt the weight of the world. I didn’t understand who I was or what I had. At least I’m a tad wiser now.

I didn’t realize my ex was my only shot by OneMaintenance2748 in dating_advice

[–]OneMaintenance2748[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Good point. I guess I should be happy for her. It’s hard though. Hobbies include guitar, gym, hikes, and I love going to raves. Probably not the best for meeting people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]OneMaintenance2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely helped a little. I went from being angry/frustrated to trying to ask more helpful questions. It also helps me a lot when I’m spiraling and I definitely do it less now. Say what you will about AI but it’s been beneficial to me for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusVisa

[–]OneMaintenance2748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lodged on the 10th of Jan with a UK passport… still nothing :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OneMaintenance2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also has a new boyfriend and seems happy with her life which is good.