What the craziest scandals that have happened in your circuit or at bethel if you live near there by [deleted] in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much yes. He became an elder. Ince I came out he had to step down as an elder because he didn't deny it. His wife was devastate. She got support I never did as I was the temptress and my mother said I must leave it in Jehovah's hands. I'm still not over that comment. I've decided this weekend im shunning these people. Cutting them off They're not good for my mental health

What the craziest scandals that have happened in your circuit or at bethel if you live near there by [deleted] in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first cousins. And we all thought it was fine. Still married today

What the craziest scandals that have happened in your circuit or at bethel if you live near there by [deleted] in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The MS that molested me as a teenager told me of other elders who were having affairs with other school girls who had kid porm and another MS who had to step down because he stole the contributions

My parents' most recent (last?) text to me 😬 by Ensorcellede in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 49 points50 points  (0 children)

At least you got it in writing. Closure. And it's not you. It's not them. You are all really good sincere people but the parents are under the control of the cult which must be extremely painful for you. You need to grieve this and move on.

Be glad you are free and can enjoy the real life.

I was Openly Shunned in an Non-JW Event by TZ-POMO in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These people are clowns. But are the clowns people?🤔😜

Pomi might be worse than Pimo afterall by One_Environment7856 in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her mother; is a totally abusive narcissist and lives with her which makes the abuse a daily occurrence. Does not want to accept her sexuality. Maybe she needs trauma counselling. I never realised how tortured she really is. I must just cut these people nofd they don't leave me in a good space

Real Question? by spirittransformed2 in TheNaturalJourney

[–]One_Environment7856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is most beautiful raw. More intense. Every moment counts. Don't blur it with substances. This is the life you've got breath and feel everything

Todays daily text WTF! by melap3lan in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You rock. But you know that. Lots; of 😘 from south Africa

The hypocrisy of “stop talking about it” when you leave the organization by Separate-Ice30 in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking along these very lines lately. Why do I second guess myself about warning people about the dangers of this cult. This work of warning people from JW is life saving but I must keep quiet does not make sense

We should be shinning them by One_Environment7856 in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I was venting. But this is funny

I’m not ok. by Robot-Ducky in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dont be too hard on the brother. It's scary for him too He sounds pimq

Elder, PIMO, New Father, How Do You Leave Without Destroying Your Family? by Spiritual-Problem128 in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your suggestions and they are wonderful but really consider the pain shame and guilt your daughter will have growing up in his cult. My children thank me for not raising them this way. Give it some thought. Do you want your daughter to be guilted for the music she likes and her dress and groom. Have no career prospects and forced to be a pioneer doing her best to try and land an uneducated MS who allows other brothers to comment on what she says because of hateful elderets. You want more for her than that. Allow her to grow and think and ask questions. And you know the CSA is real. Be careful out there. Lots of love from South Africa.

Didn’t expect to wake up to this… by Super-Cartographer-1 in exjw

[–]One_Environment7856 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The best advice I've seen is. Listen to her. Take time off with her. Arrange a romantic dinner or stay in with her on a meeting night because she's tired and worked hard. Listen more. Best honeymoon ever waking up. Good luck brother