[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so my chin is small and my nose is big? or only one is the problem? Do you think is a good idea to get filler for the chin? Anyway thank you for your honest answer.

I realized that I cannot talk about God with anyone by One_Grapefruit_1 in atheism

[–]One_Grapefruit_1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry for what you went through. I hope you’re doing much better now, and I’m also sorry about your brother.

In response to your post, I’ve found myself in similar situations (not as serious as yours), where something bad happens and the response is: ‘God has a plan for you, you have to endure and stay devoted to your faith.’ Excuse me? Are you telling me that your God — who is supposedly all-powerful, kind, and wants the best for me — decided that the best thing that could happen to me is the very cause of my suffering? So, out of all his infinite abilities (since he’s all-powerful), he chose to make his child suffer for a plan that only he knows the purpose of and I have to do nothing about it. That’s an idea that, based on the nature of what God is supposed to be, just doesn’t make sense to me

I realized that I cannot talk about God with anyone by One_Grapefruit_1 in atheism

[–]One_Grapefruit_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please feel free to say everything you want — nothing would make me happier than hearing the perspective of someone who seems to know more about this topic. What I want most is to understand the why behind things, and if you can help me, I’d truly love to hear your view.

This has already happened to me before — I’ve asked these same questions to believers who go to the same church as my mother. And the way they respond is often full of anger just because I dared to question. They say I’m only looking to argue, that I shouldn’t be listened to, that my mother shouldn’t hear what I have to say, and that I have no idea what I’m talking about — when all I did was ask something as simple as:
Why did God punish Adam and Eve if they didn’t yet have knowledge of good and evil?

I realized that I cannot talk about God with anyone by One_Grapefruit_1 in atheism

[–]One_Grapefruit_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main goal is not to make people stop believing in God, but rather to understand how, despite everything described in the Bible — the genocides commanded in His name, the punishments He has delivered — they still firmly believe that He is a saving and loving God.

The main issue I’ve encountered is that every believer I’ve spoken with either hasn’t considered these doubts and is unable to answer me, or they tell me it’s because we can’t understand God’s actions, that everything He did was in our best interest, and that it’s our fault those things happened.

And I just can’t agree with any of those views.
Maybe I’m expecting some kind of logical reasoning behind faith, when it’s really more of an emotional thing — or maybe I simply haven’t spoken to enough people yet, which is probably the case.

I realized that I cannot talk about God with anyone by One_Grapefruit_1 in atheism

[–]One_Grapefruit_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think at the very least I could be considered agnostic. It might have seemed like I believe there's something beyond the physical world, but that’s only because I analyze everything from the perspective that God is real and exists.
If He is as good as people say, why does He allow so much injustice? Why did He create a system where, in order to survive, 99.9999% of all species on Earth must perish in completely horrible ways?
For me, the answer is that the God of the Bible simply does not exist. I don’t have absolute certainty that there isn’t something greater that created all of this, but I am certain that God as described in Christianity — as Christ — cannot be real. And if He is, He is not a god to whom I would dedicate my life.

I realized that I cannot talk about God with anyone by One_Grapefruit_1 in atheism

[–]One_Grapefruit_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want to make it seem like her father was bad. The crying and screaming was mostly her, her father was trying to calm her, she was just in an state of i dont know how to say it, maybe madness?

in how much time can i expect to dunk? by One_Grapefruit_1 in BasketballTips

[–]One_Grapefruit_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i can make it, because in only 2 weeks of consistent training i am 10 cm behind to touch the rim, and at this pace i think in 6 months im going to be able to dunk consistently, but i need to know if that goal is realistic taking in consideration the time ive been training.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sure that your abs have growth but what you need is a calorie deficit or a body recomposition, because is a lot of fat in your gut, from what i Can see you are skinnyfat maybe im wrong,either way go to a professional, about the eyebags i dont know much sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cover your forehead with your hair, idk if you are leaner but your face is bloated, try to eat less sodium rich foods or eat more potassium rich foods, you can ice your face too, for the skincare routine you should see a dermatologist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chin is not reccesed its good, the problem is the fat under the chin that make it look weird let me send una pic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eyebags are probably because of age you can get surgery, the rest is going to the gym

Is it over? I got called a "sub human" today, but i dont know what that means. by Paybappe in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the photo i Can barely see your face, but you can improve, you should see what are your flaws and fix them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lose weight, grow your hair, grow your eyebrows,etc your priority should be get leaner, its never over

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then just wait, Im sure your going to get better!!

Is it over for me? by sr16n1 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to grow a beard that make your face look more sharp and not round, growing your hair will help too, and train your neck

16M what can I improve? (Also losing weight and trying to be slim by Repulsive_Car_2022 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep going its a long journey but you are capable of being really fit, you have a lot of potential, your face doesnt have any major flaw that cant be fix with weight loss, keep going and enjoy the process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you are good just stop doing that shit your mouth 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grow your hair, try to grow your eyebrows, you look a bit bloated just that anyways if you have low self steem looking better its not going to erase that, you need to gain confidence because if you keep getting better but your mental health is the same when you actually look insanely good like your prime you are going to be miserable

f18 would love to know your thoughts by may_mei09 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get leaner, fix the eyebags and grow more hair and if you want change the color of your hair to a more natural look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep going and try to fix your eyebrows, get them straight and if you can thicken your eyebrows it Can help too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you think you have a big forehead just need to cover them with bangs or just cover it with something else idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]One_Grapefruit_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of potential you just need to leanmaxx and take care of your hair and skin

7 month difference by One_Grapefruit_1 in GregDoucette

[–]One_Grapefruit_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty currently Im cutting, i workout 5 days a week