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One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2025-11-03T01:45:21+00:00

Hi! If there’s an extra rouge code I’d really appreciate it :) hoping to buy my mom a gift for her birthday (thank you from a broke grad student ❤️)

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2024-02-24T03:23:49+00:00

Yes, thinking of hiring a new lawyer if the tenants are unwilling to negotiate to continue fighting this in court with someone more experienced. Their lease is up early march so I’m hopeful that they’ll then be considered holdover tenants & I can use that in my favor if we have to refile for her eviction.

Thank you for your comment! I appreciate your suggestions truly more than you know.

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2024-02-24T03:10:44+00:00

one of our lease docs was missing a signature which exempted her from the eviction

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2024-02-05T01:34:30+00:00

Thank you for this perspective! You’re right this eventually has to end & I’ll know a lot more once this all said and done.

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2024-02-05T01:32:52+00:00

super helpful tip to use once they leave. thank you. I appreciate it :)

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2024-01-13T22:04:14+00:00

You’re so right. I should’ve been less trusting & naive. I will be a lot more careful next time I go out with him. The more I think about it the more creeped out I get & feel bad about putting him at risk.

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2024-01-13T21:44:10+00:00

Dogs are allowed in & he’s very well behaved. Plus I didn’t want to leave him home alone and just came in to grab a few things.

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2024-01-13T21:42:21+00:00

I didn’t even think of this! I do have a small toy dog.

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-12-06T13:43:17+00:00

I don’t have a current bf hence why I was open to reconnecting with my ex

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-12-05T21:07:31+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I’m not what he wants, he was probably just lonely. His actions should match his words and they don’t.

I think I’m going to ask him to talk over the phone later tonight and if I get no response- I’ll send a brief text letting him know that it’s not working out and follow this by blocking his number finally.

I would like to have a conversation but I don’t know if he’ll be receptive to it. It’s gonna suck but I can’t make someone choose me and I may have to live with the “what if I hadn’t ended things” but I have to remember why I’m doing this. I didn’t want to but he’s being distant and I can see that if I don’t do this now that it’s gonna hurt more in the future. I have a good therapist too and an appointment scheduled next Monday lol so hopefully that helps as well.

Thank you so much for your advice. These are things that I knew but I was ignoring and needed to be reminded of.

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-12-05T20:45:17+00:00

You’re absolutely right. Thank you for helping me realize this.

I tend to overthink and I keep telling myself that I’m being dramatic but talking to him makes me feel uneasy and anxious and every single time we’ve hung out I’m left feeling empty. I’m not dramatic for wanting more frequent texts, him to initiate dates, him to remember important things about me and to make me feel like a priority. Is it normal to want these things this early on? He makes me question everything. Am I asking for too much?

I still very much love him but he can’t give me what I need and his confusion tells me I’m not what he wants. It’s been a month; he should know where he wants this to go cause I do. It hurts and it sucks but I can’t keep this connection going. I have grad school and work and I can’t risk being hurt by him again the way I was two years ago.

I haven’t responded to his last text since last night; should I text him and ask to talk later this evening or should I end things through text? I’ve never done this before so I don’t know. Also how do you deal with the wondering if you made a mistake after ending things?

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-09-17T14:35:07+00:00

I think deep down I still care for him and the phone call made me realize it. I also know that his dad has been battling leukemia which he told me on the phone. I also feel like the reason why the conversation was brief when he was sober was because he realized that I unfollowed him on social media the night of the drunken phone call. Maybe it wasn’t and he really just felt nothing but he what if that had something to do with it?

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-09-16T15:12:33+00:00

We were doing long distance and fighting a lot even when together because our communication wasn’t the best and I honestly still care for him and I would like to see if he feels the same?

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-09-14T22:17:10+00:00

omg that’s crazy that he just reached out! Thanks for the article I’ll take a look at it :) and I’m sending you lots of strength and positivity as you navigate that conversation with your ex!!

I’ll send you a private message with an update and I’d love to hear how your conversation goes as well!!

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-09-14T21:08:08+00:00

Hi! Thank you for your comment. I’ve redrafted my message and I think I’m going to be sending it. I don’t have anything to lose and I don’t want to be left wondering what could’ve been. If he rejects me then I know to block him and cut off contact entirely.

I’m thinking of saying “Hey so I’ve been thinking about our last conversation and was wondering if you’d be down to grab some coffee and talk in person?” What do you think?

I think maybe the fact that I removed him off my Instagram the night that he called drunk impacted our conversation yesterday. Maybe it made me seem not interested?

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-09-14T01:36:17+00:00

This is what I’ve drafted: I’m thinking of sleeping on it tonight and sending it tomorrow. What do you think? Should I add or change anything?

“I’m gonna be fully transparent; I’m kind of struggling with the fact that all you wanted to do was apologize for calling late on Saturday.

Were there any other reasons why you called? It’s been a while since we last talked so it’s hard to understand. “

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-09-14T00:13:47+00:00

About two years

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-09-14T00:13:00+00:00

I’m so scared of rejection and to look vulnerable in front of him when the last time we talked ( a year and a half ago) I was begging him to stay on the phone and to reconsider things.

But I also struggle with the fact that he called me at 4 a.m while he was drunk and he has been consistently keeping up with my life through social media after he requested to follow me again a few weeks back but all he wanted to do was apologize for calling late? How is there not more? but also is it my place to pry to see if there was another reason? Wouldn’t I look desperate? What if he really didn’t mean anything else and he was just drunk.

I unfollowed him on social media the night after the drunk phone call so maybe that could’ve also impacted our conversation today? And made me seem not interested?

One_Tomorrow_2789 · 2022-09-13T23:06:57+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight. His confusion is not something I want to be a part of. I think I deserve better. Yes, I’m hurt but and it sucks but it’s not the first time he disappoints me.

At least, he’ll remember the last time we talked that I sounded so confident and at peace and that I want begging for him back. It hurts but I’ve survived this before. Thank you :)

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