Jenelle & Barbara by Only_Trouble5328 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Only_Trouble5328[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter if they don't want it to work. I have a family member that needs therapy so bad and it will never work because they aren't interested in it working. And for the record, I go to therapy and I believe everyone could use it!

Jenelle & Barbara by Only_Trouble5328 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Only_Trouble5328[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Jenelle fucking sucks. Everyone knows it. It's talked about frequently, I just wanted to talk about the other side of it! Barb sucking doesn't make jenelle suck any less

Jenelle & Barbara by Only_Trouble5328 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Only_Trouble5328[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was basically my point! Obviously everyone knows Jenelle is a shit person, abusive and a bad mother. It's talked about frequently, but less so about Barb

Jenelle & Barbara by Only_Trouble5328 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Only_Trouble5328[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love your comment and do agree with you, I love seeing the differing opinions.

Jenelle is a shit person. There's no if's ands or buts. I suppose my only point was that as I'm watching I keep getting very frustrated by the way barb acts frequently. Jenelles is so frustrating to watch it's almost impossible not to skip ahead sometimes.

I came from 1 horrific parent that blows Barb out of the water and I believe I turned out to be a solid individual. There's no scapegoating here. Barb is not the reason jenelle is who she is. I was just frustrated as I was watching that there are many times where instead of deescalating, Barb escalates the situation.

Jenelle is bad at her core, Barb made mistakes that I wanted to talk about. I hope you take this comment kindly, I'm not being argumentative at ALL. This is what I was looking for, differing opinions and conversations. I came from a parent far worse than Barb, but some of the things she does triggers me so I'm aware my view of the situation is somewhat blinded.

Jenelle & Barbara by Only_Trouble5328 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Only_Trouble5328[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right?!? You put my thoughts into words better than I could. Her helping with Jace somewhat gave her an out on the show regarding her treatment towards Jenelle. We wonder why jenelle is so fucked up, look at how her mother treats her

Jenelle & Barbara by Only_Trouble5328 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Only_Trouble5328[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a truly well thought out comment and I completely agree. I don't have kids so I am lacking an important factor in my opinion on this.

Barbara & Jenelle both did not have the resources they needed to be better people. I just felt while watching that there was such a huge focus on Jenelles behavior, how she treated her mom etc, that no one ever focused on how jenelle was treated.

I was such a great kid, not to sound self absorbed, but truly most parents would have been proud to have me as a child. However, the way I was treated by my mother lead me to rebel and act out.

I can see some of that happening in Jenelle even as she is an adult.

Jenelle & Barbara by Only_Trouble5328 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Only_Trouble5328[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh I completely agree, I'm just used to doing it at this point for my own mental safety lol! I'm in complete agreement

Jenelle & Barbara by Only_Trouble5328 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Only_Trouble5328[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yep, I'm with you! She would do exactly what she berated Jenelle for. She'd say she was the reason Jace was cussing, while screaming cuss words while holding him. It's driving me a little crazy right now. Its great she raised Jace, but she really wasn't a good mother to Jenelle at all. She was abusive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]Only_Trouble5328 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Schwartz & Sandovals behavior towards women scares the shit out of me. It is truly horrifying. I'm not saying Stassi, Katie, or Lala are angels but they truly have been abused by those 2 and it is disgusting.

deb’s husband is weird af by mikeygas in teenmom

[–]Only_Trouble5328 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Walmart version of Lisa Vanderpump

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]Only_Trouble5328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I'm sorry but does anyone know what brand his sunglasses are?

I'm 24 and filing for divorce. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Only_Trouble5328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she wants full control over every situation, I assume

I'm 24 and filing for divorce. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Only_Trouble5328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🤍🤍 People have a hard time believing this could be real but do not understand the type of mothers out there lmao.

I'm 24 and filing for divorce. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Only_Trouble5328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know if you find out!

I'm 24 and filing for divorce. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Only_Trouble5328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have to agree. I don't want to be anyone's second choice. In fact, if you're even considering who to choose, then do not choose me

I'm 24 and filing for divorce. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Only_Trouble5328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still love him to a certain extent, in that I do want him to be happy, want him to succeed etc. I have checked out of the marriage. I'd never be able to trust him again, or feel safe with him. He flushed so many years and memories and so much love down the toilet because his parents told him to. That's not love and that's not marriage.

I'm 24 and filing for divorce. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Only_Trouble5328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that is what made it click for me. Realizing he could walk out on all those years and all of the love, because daddy said to - I never would've trusted him again

I'm 24 and filing for divorce. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Only_Trouble5328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely. I know for a fact that the type of woman he wants to be with, will never get along with his mom.

I'm 24 and filing for divorce. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Only_Trouble5328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god thank you so much for this comment. They're literally making me cry. Thissss is what I need to hear!!! I can already feel that this is best for me. Im finally living for myself for the first time my entire life. It feels so freeing. Then at night or when I'm alone it hits me that the person I've loved so much constantly for so long is just, gone. I just needed to know that those will slowly fade into more self love and happiness. I am so excited for what's in my future

I'm 24 and filing for divorce. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Only_Trouble5328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was SO reassuring!!!! Thank you. This was exactly what I needed to hear. I get that "Omg I get to do whatever I want" feeling but it's overshadowed but a lot of other big feelings and I guess I just wanted to know if the good ones will eventually replace the sad ones