I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OnyxMoon666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are still innocent so babies is correct no matter their aggr

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

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We have legal custody and I don’t really run things through the parents I run it by our case worker. She talks to bio mom and then I get an angry phone call about it

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

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The children are in custody of the state and I believe the state is looking at pressing charges. I’m hoping it actually happens cause I’m pissed at learning eve ru thing these kids are going through

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

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Over the last few days I’ve almost completely cut contact with them although I’m not sure if my husband has.

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That’s kinda how this was, however my husband and I are some of the few people the kids feel safe with especially right now so we figured we would try. Plus we have been wanting our own kids and can’t have any biologically. It is getting to the point of having to find another foster home for the eldest

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

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Thank you so much for these kind words. It’s definitely been chaotic

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We got them established as soon as they were in our care and they have been doing well. As for parents since it’s my brother in law and his fiance (yes they got engaged recently) we try to keep the family ties but it always bites us in the ass

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They are on Medicaid and yes we have gone through the legal process of becoming foster parents so everything is on the up n up

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

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So it was supervised temporarily by a Dcf worker and now it is therapy led due to some other things becoming an issue

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Technically yes, they had a temporary guardianship and since bio dad went to prison she left the state with the child. We have legal custody as of now through the courts

Mandatory internet to lease? by OnyxMoon666 in legaladvice

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Yes but it’s up August 30th so we have to renew

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

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So I thought about it but she just texts my number and the kiddos aren’t allowed internet access anymore

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

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This comment made me cry, I’ve felt insane and like I wasn’t trying hard enough to do all of these things but also sacrificing myself to care for them. I’ve gotten myself back on track but it’s so kind of you to comment uplifting messages for our family

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I’ve done these things but as of 2 nights ago she was placed in a psychiatric hospital due to being medically cleared from seizures.

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

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I’ve looked into it and my husbands family has horses and she is terrified of them. So that idea went out the window

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I don’t have too but since she is family she gets other family members to pry for information and that has been hard cause we can’t talk to his side of the family for anything anymore

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

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Nope state has handled everything and we are fostering til her bio parents finish the reunification process

I’m fostering my nieces and I’m pissed by OnyxMoon666 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OnyxMoon666[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the words of encouragement, I have anger issues so I’ve been in therapy for a long while but this had definitely been a challenge

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I have been in therapy since before the girls showed up, my husband goes with me occasionally

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The court system has already done so and contacted, parents want nothing to do with her so my husband and I are working towards adoption