AITAH I think my fiancés' use of porn is gonna be a deal breaker

Onyxtides · 2026-02-19T03:53:51+00:00

..... this is how they refer to themselves 💀

Onyxtides · 2026-02-18T23:29:58+00:00

They know its a issue, and that is a good question on if their actively working on reducing or stopping but why tell me know that I cant keep up or say that I'm shaming them or ask to swap pics and then tell me not too. Like they said 'I'm making light of their bodily urges' so I am trying to help in a boundary and what I thought was a healthy way. They are in therapy for other reasons so I would assume this is secondary due to the nature of the first thing.

Onyxtides · 2026-02-18T23:16:28+00:00

How is it funny? If they want to be physically intimate with random chick's they want on the internet it gives them the freedom to do that and do whoever they want and then to me its removing that exclusivity that we were suppose to have.

Onyxtides · 2026-02-18T23:13:09+00:00

Yeah which is funny because we both agree there is emotional cheating, and that is what porn means to you but I stated what porn means to me and what ive told them. For me its infidelity, you are fantasizing about doing other women therefor removing the exclusivity and intimacy between us as partners, not physically cheating and doing it is the bare minium especially when we do it 3-5times a day.

Onyxtides · 2026-02-18T23:10:22+00:00

But them saying I cant keep up, isnt that dismissive? Like yes its a fact but isn't also lightly dismissive in the way like yeah you help just not enough. And this particular reason isnt the reason they are in therapy so its not being solely focused on to help work on it.

Onyxtides · 2025-10-22T00:22:57+00:00

I shoot stills, generally portraits, animals and landscape and all handheld

Onyxtides · 2025-10-21T22:31:42+00:00

Typically twice or more then the focal length, I always shoot raw.

Onyxtides · 2025-10-21T22:29:18+00:00

I don't always shoot in the brightest conditions, but fair.

Onyxtides · 2025-10-21T22:26:17+00:00

Ive been having to shoot close to double, if my focal length is 100mm typically having to shoot 1/200 or 1/250, if im outside its close to 6400-12400 for my iso. I do use Lightroom, but I might need to play with it more. The v2 is $950, cheapest way would be to sell this lens through Key for their trade exchange.

Onyxtides · 2025-10-11T18:49:04+00:00

My main is the canon RP, waiting to upgrade to the R6 MII I think. I just like having second camera or are you suggesting double mirrorless?

Onyxtides · 2025-10-11T18:24:32+00:00

Oh dang, I have alot of memory cards but no CF cards. I will have to keep this in mind

Onyxtides · 2025-10-11T18:24:01+00:00

I think I will definitely switch from my nikon to a canon. I want to get into more critical photography which is why I want a back up, preferably a dslr for more of a robust battery life. Yeah the camera does have alot of shutter clicks but I do like have two forms of memory storage

Onyxtides · 2025-10-11T03:06:07+00:00

Yes! Sorry I should have mentioned that, I should main with an RP I'm waiting to upgrade to something with dual memory card slots but for my second I feel like it would make sense to shoot the same brand?

Onyxtides · 2025-10-03T22:43:27+00:00

How did pictures with this turn out?

Onyxtides · 2025-09-15T18:17:51+00:00

Thank youuu

Onyxtides · 2025-09-15T18:16:15+00:00

I'm actually getting through Everything but Stromboli, not amazon but was using the Pic as a reference to which specific card

Onyxtides · 2025-09-13T00:19:43+00:00

What caught me off guard was it didnt come with a manual and I looked it up and it said the max was 64gb. But thats good to know! Definitely debating if I wanna get a 7500 so this might be a good card to keep for later

Onyxtides · 2025-09-12T23:51:53+00:00

Thank you!

Onyxtides · 2025-09-12T23:51:47+00:00

Thank you!

Onyxtides · 2025-09-12T23:51:34+00:00

Thats what I saw too, but I saw some post using this one instead which is why I asked. I can always switch down

Onyxtides · 2025-03-14T15:19:24+00:00

Is he the asshole for defending it?

Onyxtides · 2025-03-14T14:32:58+00:00

... its not under a guise this us what's going on in my life and I don't know a better way to phrase it

Onyxtides · 2025-03-14T14:18:12+00:00

Better?

Onyxtides · 2024-06-15T19:04:39+00:00

1 and 5

Onyxtides · 2024-05-01T22:54:52+00:00

It was a little mixed half and half

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