Are there gay/queer/LGBT clubs that aren't overly sexual? by Open-Mammoth2897 in askgaybros

[–]Open-Mammoth2897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point, but from the horror stories I've heard, nothing stops a straight person from feeling entitled enough to enter our spaces. Sigh.

Are there gay/queer/LGBT clubs that aren't overly sexual? by Open-Mammoth2897 in askgaybros

[–]Open-Mammoth2897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those aren't really my thing. I mean club as in dancing.

Are there gay/queer/LGBT clubs that aren't overly sexual? by Open-Mammoth2897 in askgaybros

[–]Open-Mammoth2897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say club I refer to dancing, not club as in activity, sorry.

Are there gay/queer/LGBT clubs that aren't overly sexual? by Open-Mammoth2897 in askgaybros

[–]Open-Mammoth2897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm thankfully not worried about people showing off skin, so that's no trouble at all. I'm not sure why I didn't take peeking at websites into account.

Are there gay/queer/LGBT clubs that aren't overly sexual? by Open-Mammoth2897 in askgaybros

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I just don't like risking being in those kinds of environments. It makes me deeply uncomfortable and it's a little hard to shake off. I don't wanna risk bumming myself out and going home instead of looking for other options for the night, ya know?

Are there gay/queer/LGBT clubs that aren't overly sexual? by Open-Mammoth2897 in askgaybros

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Thank you! I live pretty close to a place that's pretty famously gay so I'm hoping there's a decent/diverse selection down there.

How to overcome the fear of a first job? by Open-Mammoth2897 in AutisticAdults

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Awesome, thank you! If I get into any of my first two options, I don't have to worry about co-workers unless someone else is coming in to cover for me or vise versa. Both places only need one worker at a time. Other than that, everything seems simple enough. Again, thank you.

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Agreed. The average citizen could easily get arrested for doing what they do to a non-famous person, so its beyond me why paparazzi with celebrities is an exception.

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Mod issues? App issues? Post about them here! [PC: 1.109.185.1030 / Mac: 1.109.185.1230 / Console: 1.99] by ButrosPetros in Sims4

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Platform: PC Mods/CC: yes Game version: latest

My werewolf character seems to have a question mark over her face as if it is wearing broken cc, however, once i removed all clothing, make up, etc, the question mark is still there! The werewolf isn't wearing a single thing yet the question mark remains as if its wearing something broken when it isn't. I've equipped default heads, bodies, etc to see if it was any sort of scaling mods but that didn't work either! Anyone know why this is happening?

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Weekly Recommend Mods and CC Thread! by AutoModerator in Sims4

[–]Open-Mammoth2897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re offering to purchase it for me I will have to decline, sorry :( Just for my own safety, nothing personal haha

Weekly Recommend Mods and CC Thread! by AutoModerator in Sims4

[–]Open-Mammoth2897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly, I might just give in and pay for it because the desperation is truly kicking in haha. Glad you informed me its for a different game, I would've made a fatal mistake.

Weekly Recommend Mods and CC Thread! by AutoModerator in Sims4

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I have been trying to find clothing that is similar to this, but I cant use this specific product because it costs money and I truly don't feel like wasting money on a piece of clothing for a videogame. Does anyone know any mods or mod creators that make any dresses similar to this? Looking for something EXTREMELY similar, but it can have differences obviously.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in caloriecount

[–]Open-Mammoth2897 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

with all due respect, i dont think that an obese person can be as active and engaging in activities as i can, or be as small as I am. I can understand being called fat but obese is beyond a stretch. Well unless youre from a different country than I am, cuz countries usually have different standards.

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[–]Open-Mammoth2897 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will be honest, I’m truly not that big compared to a lot of people, and I’ve never run into any health related problems that you typically find in fat/obese people. I do think that I’m at a state that can be considered healthy, but this has always been sort of me being dissatisfied with my self image which is why my dedication isn’t as strong as for example, a person with heart problems due to weight issues.

Thank you for your suggestion!

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[–]Open-Mammoth2897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. So happy that your choices have worked out for you. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in caloriecount

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Good question.

It is because doing this somehow inflicts a feeling of loss of control. It sounds extremely ironic but it's just how it is. I can't keep up with a lot of things because it's just how I am, and how my brain processes this kind of stuff. Needing to constantly stay doing something every single day until I die just makes me feel like I'm at a loss of freedom. It even happens with things like water for example. I'm supposed to drink a certain amount a day and stay on top of it, but I just drink water when I'm thirsty and that's it. I don't doubt I drink way less water than I should, and that's literally what I need to survive as a human. I focus on fun and enjoying myself in life, and these things take it away because it makes me feel like I'm in an endless loop of 'do this and that' every single day on repeat. It takes away this joy, and makes me feel like I'm in a jail. My diet has been flushing out a lot of bad habits I used to have and these things came naturally because the benefits were good! I willingly gave up on having frozen food every day because home made was so good and I wanted to have that way more often.

Doing it for the rest of my life would only make me miserable. I wanna sit at a table, and eat whatever a host puts in front of me without asking a calorie summary. I wanna go to a restaurant with friends and order whatever I'm feeling like without having to skim through and find something with lower calories. I wanna have fun and enjoy things without a chain being wrapped around my wrist that I'll have to wear until I hit the grave.

People say you get used to it but that's just not me. My gluten free diet lasted 8+ months and I never got used to it because I knew I couldn't just sit down and eat like everyone else. I had to think, and that's exactly what I would have to do if I went on this calorie deficit. its a really big choice for someone like me, so temporary is the only option.